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Dear Friends,
We only have a 9 more days of May. Let’s take Full Advantage of Celebrating Pleasuring Ourselves.
Now we all know why Anastasia has not posted any material…

 

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May is International Masturbation Month

Good Vibrations began celebrating National Masturbation Month in 1995! Earlier that year, then-Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders was fired for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education. We were astounded. It was one of the most sensible things we’d ever heard a government official say — and it cost Elders her job! We started National Masturbation Month — now International Masturbation Month with people celebrating across the globe! — to raise awareness and to highlight the importance of masturbation for nearly everyone: it’s safe, it’s healthy, it’s free, it’s pleasurable and it helps people get to know their bodies and their sexual responses. Of all the kinds of sex people can have, masturbation is the most universal and important, yet few people talk about it freely — worse, many people still feel it is “second best” or problematic in some way. Masturbation Month lets us emphasize how great it is: it’s natural, common and fun!

Why May?

Because “the merry, merry month of May” has long been seen as symbolizing sexual awakening. Also, because “May” and “masturbation” both start with “M” — it’s nice and alliterative.

Masturbation Resources

More articles about self-love:

*Advanced Masturbation Techniques for Men

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=advanced-masturbation-techniques-for-men

*Masturbation Hall of Fame

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=masturbation-hall-of-fame

*How to Choose a Vibrator

 http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=how-to-choose-a-vibrator

*How to Choose a Dildo 

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Choose-A-Dildo

*How to Enjoy Anal Sex 

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Enjoy-Anal-Sex

*How to Female Ejaculate 

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Female-Ejaculate

*Physiology of Pleasure

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=735

*What is an Orgasm?

 http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=what-is-an-orgas

*Masturbation Toy Shopping Guide 

http://www.goodvibes.com/display_category.jhtml?id=catalog70002_cat33920

History of the Masturbation Taboo

Almost everyone masturbates, but all too few of us are willing to admit to enjoying this simple pleasure — mostly because of the taboo against masturbation in our society, which has its roots in historical misconceptions that have survived to the present day. Concerns about masturbation tend to fall into two general categories: that masturbation is dangerously wasteful or that it’s immature. The notion that masturbation is wasteful springs from the widespread misconception that men have a finite allotment of sperm and that every ejaculation depletes precious semen, resulting in exhaustion and weakness. Although women don’t produce semen, it was once believed that masturbation was similarly destructive and debilitating to them. The belief that masturbation is such a dangerous drain on energy that it can lead to enfeeblement, illness and ultimately insanity was so persistent in 18th, 19th and even 20th century Europe and America that treatments for preventing masturbation became something of an obsession.

Turn-of-the-century magazines featured advertisements for penile rings which were spiked on the inside so that if the wearer experienced an erection during the course of the night, he’d wake from the pain. Bondage belts, restraints, straitjackets, cauterizing irons and even clitoridectomy (the surgical excision of the clitoris) were all methods used to prevent young women from masturbating. American health reformers of the 19th century preached, as in these words from John Kellogg, that masturbation was “the vilest, the basest and the most degrading act that a human being can commit.”

Although most men and women today are aware that masturbation isn’t a “degrading act,” many are still constrained by the notion that it’s a selfish, immature activity or a second-rate substitute for partner sex. We live in a society in which sexual expression has always been legislated and restricted and the pursuit of pure pleasure is frequently condemned as selfish and childish. A lot of people who consider themselves free of sexual hang-ups have simply rewritten the equation “sex is only good if it involves procreation” to “sex is only good if it involves two loving people.” The fact that masturbation is a pleasurable end in itself gets short shrift in mainstream sex manuals, which focus on masturbation as a useful tool in the building of a better sex life with one’s partner. While it’s certainly true that masturbation provides valuable information about your own and your partners’ sexual responses, masturbation is much more than a means to the exalted end of better partner sex. Masturbation is our first sexual activity, a natural source of pleasure that’s available to us throughout our lives, and a unique form of creative self-expression. Each time you masturbate, you’re celebrating your sexuality and your innate capacity for pleasure, so give yourself a hand!

Masturbation Today

While giving yourself pleasure may seem as natural as taking a breath, masturbation is by no means a widely accepted form of sexual activity. Today, in many parts of the world (including the U.S.) children are punished if they are caught masturbating, which can affect their sexuality for the rest of their lives. Adults in cultures across the globe are presented with heterosexual marriage as the only acceptable form of sexual expression. Masturbation is not honored as an important form of safer sex, much less as a way a person can love herself, learn about himself, or exercise, as one wonderful Chinese euphemism puts it, “self-comfort.”

Masturbation can be a radical act, and the culture that suppresses masturbation may suppress many other personal freedoms as well. While celebrating Masturbation Month and doing your part to bring self-love out of the closet, keep in mind that erotic freedom is essential to true well-being, everywhere.

* Copied Directly From http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=masturbation-month-facts

The Cat Found Her Mouse, The Dog Found His Bone: The Dinner Party: #6 of 7: On Our Way Home

Posted: December 12, 2013 in Acknowledgement, Adult Content, Affection, Always Treasure, Answered Questions, Appreciation, Assertive Women, Assume The Position, Attraction, Body Parts, Boobs, Bottom, Breast, Calling, Catching Up, Connected, Daredevils Of Deviance, Dedicated, Desire, Embraced, Empowered Women, Enchanted, Endearing, Eternal Love, Explicit Sexual Language, Feel Your Essence, Gratitude, Happiness, Having A Wonderful Time, Having Your Cake And Eating It Too, Hidden Desires, I Love You, Inspiration, Intimacy, Joy, Knowledge, Literotica, Love, Love and Compassion, Love Happens, Lover, Loyal, Lust, Making Out In The Car, Man & Woman Together, Marriage, Mature Theme, More Than Words Can Say, My Love, My Lover, My Pet, My Sexuality, Orchid, Passion, Perverted, Pursuit Of Forbidden Pleasures, Push The Limits, Questions Answered, Razor's Edge, Relationship, Rigid, Sensuality, Sexual Chicken, Sexuality, Soul Mates, Tenderness, Timing Is Everything, Together As Equals, Touched, Twinkle In My Eye, Women, Wunderlust, Yin Yang
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On Our Way Home

After our passionate kiss Ian opened the passenger door. I entered and sat in the car. Ian walked around the car opened and entered into the driver seat. Before engaging our seat belts we mutually turned and faced one another. We gazed deeply into the windows of our souls. In unison we leaned inward. Our upper bodies connected. My breasts compressed firmly against Ian’s chest, whilst my nipples became erect rubbing against him. My left arm extended cradling the back of his neck with my hand. My right hand delicately caressing the right side of his face. His arms encircled me snugly. Our lips met as our mouths parted open, his moistened tongue softly enters me as my tongue greeted his with much excitement.

Within moments are tongues were entwined swirling back and forth within our mouths. Ian repositioned himself in the driver’s seat. Keeping one arm around me, and the other while slipping underneath my top and unhooked my front fastened bra. (Aahhh my breast are free) His warm soft hand gently cupped each breast. His fingertips gently rubbed against one nipple, then the other. My right hand slowly works its way down from his cheek, then neck where I unbuttoned his shirt and slide my hand through lightly caressing his chest. Our tongues darted and dance with delight. My breath was quick and sharp, my cunt whet and wanting. I slid my hand underneath his pants and boxers. My palm rested on top of the head of his glistening cock. I moved my fingers up and down the top portion of his shaft. Ian moved his hand slowly and methodically down until he reached the bottom of my skirt that he lifted upwards exposing my panties. With fervor his fingers pull the front of my laced panties taking access to my wanting Flower that is moist with essence.

I slowly leaned my head backwards breaking our kiss. “Honey I think we should start the engine and head home Now.” “I agree ” Ian replied. We repositioned ourselves and fastened our seat belts. Ian turned the key and started the engine. He drove out from the parking spot. I asked “Did you enjoy dancing with Chiaki?” He turned his head and smiled exhibiting a mischievous expression. Then turned and focused on the road.

“Yes I did.”

“I saw you cupping her ass.”

“Yes.”

“How did it feel in your hands?”

“Nice…small, well-rounded and tight.” 

“I bet it would feel good to hold as you thrusted her?”

“ I like the way you think Sweetheart.”

“Did she react?”

“I’m sensing she enjoyed what I was doing.”

“Oh how?”

“I could feel her slightly push her pelvis against me”

“I have no doubt that gave you a hard on.”

“Yes… it did.”

“I’m sure she liked what she felt. I’m getting hot just hearing about it. Did she touch your cock?”

“No.”

“I wonder why?”

“Maybe she didn’t want to seem to eager.”

“Maybe..”

“I saw Jake kiss you.”

“Yes…he did.”

“What was it like?”

“Soft and gentle. No tongue .”

“Well I’m sure he was being a gentleman.”

“Yes he was.”

“Did you check out his cock?

“Honey…of course I did.”

“And?”

“From the bulge I saw he looked to be quite endowed.”

“What gives you that impression?”

“Well I’m pretty sure he had an erection.”

“Why?”

“When he leaned back to get his phone from out of his pocket, his schlong was positioned upward and the fabric of his pants gave a nice defined outline”

“Coming from you that doesn’t surprise me. From your past experiences you generally seem to attract well hung men.”

“Yeah I guess I’m lucky in that sense Honey. I’m met and married you. You know Jake asked about you?”

“Oh what did he ask about?”

“He expressed his desire to do Very Dirty and Nasty things to you.”

“Oh.. what did you say?”

“I saw the three of us, and the two of you, and then me directing the two of you jumping in and out as I please.”

“Did you have an opportunity to touch Chiaki’s tits?”

“I did.”

“Tell me how did she respond?”

“As I brought my hand up near her chest she positioned herself allowing me to feel them.”

“Honey.. please be more specific. Did you feel her tits over her dress, or under the dress over the bra? Or directly under her bra?”

“Directly under her bra.”  Ian paused for just a moment.

“Honey..…”

“Hang on sweetheart, the phone is vibrating.”  Ian reached for his cell phone in his shirt pocket. “Hello. Hi how are you? We had a wonderful time too. I gently nudged his right arm attempting to get his attention. Ian raised his index finger on his right hand off the steering wheel. Motioning to wait a second. “We are pulling in the driveway now. Okay sounds great I’ll talk to you then.”

“Who was calling?”

Stayed Tuned for more adventures of these Daredevils of Deviance.

 

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I have a bone to pick with no one in particular, but if only for the sake of clarification, I think that we may be due for reclassification of some very old Pursuits of Happiness.

Recently, the BD/SM community (wouldn’t it be great if we all really lived in the same neighborhood, by the way?) has begun to address the fact that although the Old Guard believes you are either a Top, or a Bottom, a Sadist or a Masochist, and that you either Bind or are Bound and either administer or receive the Discipline, My Advisors tell me this is no longer true….

For me, that is much too rigid, inflexible and limiting. I realize some people can only function in one capacity or the other because of…who knows?…lets just leave it at Something Happened Some Time Ago, or it may still be happening, but suffice it…

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