🐝Shutterbugzzz 🐝

 Dear Friends,

This post is dedicated to AmyRose

of

http://herladypinkrose.wordpress.com.

With Love, Encouragement, and Inspiration.

Amy lit a light in me that had been dim for too long.

📷

This is my first photographic post.

It is with my Love, Appreciation, Gratitude and Inspiration

that I’m dedicating this post to AmyRose.

📷

 

🏆 Very Inspiring Blogger Award 🏆

 

My Dear Friend,

John of http://writingthebody.wordpress.com

has presented me with this prestigious award.

It is with much Love and Gratitude that I Graciously accept

this gift of kindness.

❤️ Thank You My Dear Friend. ❤️

🏆

Guidelines:

1. Link and thank the person who nominated you.

2. List the rules and display the award.

3. List Three (3) things about yourself

❤️

I would like to take this opportunity to acknowledge these Very Important and Influential People that have Touched my life.  It is with their Love, Support, and Inspiration that lit a light that had been dark for too long.

❤️

This is not meant to exclude the many other Dear Friends

whose Love, Support, and Encouragement 

has touched me deeply, and made a difference in my life.

❤️

❤️ You Are All Important To Me ❤️

1.  A Special Thank You to Amy of  http://herladypinkrose.wordpress.com who inspired, and encouraged me to express my creativity within the world of photography. I just received my first Nikon dslr camera 📷 for my birthday last week. There is so much to learn. I have enjoyed educating myself, and playing with my new toy. Sorry kids these photo’s aren’t ready for the blog site…I hope to show case beautiful works of art one day like Amy posts regularly.

2. A Special Thank You to Lizzy of  http://bigbodybeautiful.wordpress.com. Her blog, and writings has helped me to Embrace, and Love my body regardless of my weight. Due to thyroid disease, auto immune disorders, and Menopause.  I have struggled with distorted body self-perception, and anorexia nervosa since adolescence.

3.  Mentor, Confidant, and Mutual Co-Conspirator Chazz Vincent of http://dreamlanddancing.wordpress.com. Who has inspired more than just my writings…

4. Nominate FIVE (5) other amazing blogs and

comment on their posts to let them know they have been nominated.

🏆

Duck, Duck, Goose. You’re It!

Please accept this Award,

along with my complimentary box of Godiva Chocolates, and Crystal Champagne.

🏆

The Nominees (in no order) Are…

🏆

1.  The Beautiful, and Amazing Woman of The Elite Vixens of http://thevixens.wordpress.com

2. “G” of http://shamelesslyguiltless.wordpress.com  who personifies Empowered Woman.

3. Dear Friend, Partner in Pain Management: Dawn of http://findingmyinnercourage.wordpress.com

4. Dear Friend, Amazing Photographer: Amy of http://herladypinkrose.wordpress.com

5. Dear Friend, Soul Sister: Lizzy of http://bigbodybeautiful.wordpress.com

🏆

I’m humbled to have developed many dear, and close friendships within our community.

I’m Inspired by All that I follow.

It’s an honor to be in the company of such Creative, and Talented Artists.

With Much Love & Light To All

Anastasia 😊

There She Was Right Before Me

I had Envisioned meeting Her

for Oh so long.

🌹

She Was Her Own Woman.

🌹

She possessed Everything I had Imagined.

🌹

We Connected, and Bonded

it was meant to be.

🌹

She was Bent, not Broken

just like me.

🌹

She Trusted, and Shared

the Spark

between Us was visibly there.

🌹

He entered the room smiling

as we lay there before him,

knowing she had met her match.

🌹

We playfully Seduced

his Mind, Body, and Soul.

As we Shared our

new-found Discovery of each other.

The Other Woman

 The Other Woman

 She knows well enough

to respect me.

She knows better than

to ignore me.

I like her in her own right.

I tell myself we should be friends,

not just because it will be easier

but also because it’s

so rare to find

anyone who

gets me

and gets him too.

I could use more friends like her.

And I gather, so could she.

***

 Men are not just scraps of meat,

over which we

think we must fight,

only to hurt ourselves

in the process.

We do not need to fight

over this man.

We are not bitches,

but we can share

the bone

like sisters.

With a common agenda

there is much

we can do

together to further

our own needs.

So much energy

wasted either in subterfuge,

detection,

or intervention.

Better to get it out

and get on with it

than to

cower

in the shadow

of denial

or self-deception.

She knows

I saw him first,

and I know

she won’t be the last

to notice him.

She also knows

that when I

follow my nature,

there will be times I will be glad

she will be there for him,

allowing me to take my leave

when and as I choose

when the glove is on the other hand.

***

She is the perfect

Other Woman.

She knows

what it is like

to walk in my shoes

and what hurts

as well as what feels good

if she will just let it.

I understand her completely

because

I have been her

for him

when someone else was me,

and I wanted to be honest

and remain her friend,

but such was not to be.

***

And now,

as I prepare to take my leave

to explore,

to experience

something new

with someone new

I realize that once again

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

I want to have so much

in common with this

enlightened woman

who sees me as I am,

accepts me,

even encourages me

to help find pleasure

with this man

she loves so much,

I can’t help

loving

her

for the way

that

she loves him.

If women

of uncommon

consciousness

found their friends

from among

their lovers’

paramours

they would never find themselves

lonely

or friendless

again.

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

 

Dragon Loyalty Award

I am Honored to Follow, and be Followed by Extremely Talented Writers, Authors, and Bloggers.

Chazz of dreamlanddancing.wordpress.com

bestowed me this prestigious award.

I have Admired Chazz’s writings.

 I Always Feel a Connection. An understanding and I Always gain Wisdom and Insight.

I have had the Honor and Pleasure to collaborate with Chazz.

His creative imagination, worldly experiences, sense of humor and of course our perverse and deviant banter

are just the tip of the surface of this Amazing Writer.

Cum join me over in dreamland.

Listen To Your Heart: Your Body says Yes, but your Brain says No

When your body says yes,

but your brain says no,

listen to your heart.

If your mouth says yes,

but your heart says no

listen to your heart.

If your heart says yes,

your body will follow.

Follow your heart.

It cannot rationalize.

It doesn’t reason,

and is heedless

of excuses.

Your heart will give you strength

when your body is weak.

Your heart does not need to fear.

Follow your heart.

If your heart says no,

trust your feelings.

The heart understands

what the mind

can never comprehend.

Trust your heart

to be your compass.

Your heart knows the way

even when your brain gets lost.

Be good to your heart.

Your Heart Loves You

even when it seems

like no one else does.

Your heart will teach you

how to love yourself

in order to be able

to love another

completely and unselfishly

and without reservation.

When you Love Yourself

the others will follow.

Trust your heart.

Listen to your heart.

Follow your heart.

Every time it breaks

it gets a little bigger,

and gets a little stronger,

and you become more fearless.

Open up your heart.

Your heart will set you free.

If your heart says Yes….

Follow your heart

Always.

The Cat Found Her Mouse, The Dog Found His Bone: The Dinner Party: #6 of 7: On Our Way Home

🔞  Warning Mature Content 🔞

Explicit Sexual Words & Themes

On Our Way Home

After our passionate kiss Ian opened the passenger door. I entered and sat in the car. Ian walked around the car opened and entered into the driver seat. Before engaging our seat belts we mutually turned and faced one another. We gazed deeply into the windows of our souls. In unison we leaned inward. Our upper bodies connected. My breasts compressed firmly against Ian’s chest, whilst my nipples became erect rubbing against him. My left arm extended cradling the back of his neck with my hand. My right hand delicately caressing the right side of his face. His arms encircled me snugly. Our lips met as our mouths parted open, his moistened tongue softly enters me as my tongue greeted his with much excitement.

Within moments are tongues were entwined swirling back and forth within our mouths. Ian repositioned himself in the driver’s seat. Keeping one arm around me, and the other while slipping underneath my top and unhooked my front fastened bra. (Aahhh my breast are free) His warm soft hand gently cupped each breast. His fingertips gently rubbed against one nipple, then the other. My right hand slowly works its way down from his cheek, then neck where I unbuttoned his shirt and slide my hand through lightly caressing his chest. Our tongues darted and dance with delight. My breath was quick and sharp, my cunt whet and wanting. I slid my hand underneath his pants and boxers. My palm rested on top of the head of his glistening cock. I moved my fingers up and down the top portion of his shaft. Ian moved his hand slowly and methodically down until he reached the bottom of my skirt that he lifted upwards exposing my panties. With fervor his fingers pull the front of my laced panties taking access to my wanting Flower that is moist with essence.

I slowly leaned my head backwards breaking our kiss. “Honey I think we should start the engine and head home Now.” “I agree ” Ian replied. We repositioned ourselves and fastened our seat belts. Ian turned the key and started the engine. He drove out from the parking spot. I asked “Did you enjoy dancing with Chiaki?” He turned his head and smiled exhibiting a mischievous expression. Then turned and focused on the road.

“Yes I did.”

“I saw you cupping her ass.”

“Yes.”

“How did it feel in your hands?”

“Nice…small, well-rounded and tight.” 

“I bet it would feel good to hold as you thrusted her?”

“ I like the way you think Sweetheart.”

“Did she react?”

“I’m sensing she enjoyed what I was doing.”

“Oh how?”

“I could feel her slightly push her pelvis against me”

“I have no doubt that gave you a hard on.”

“Yes… it did.”

“I’m sure she liked what she felt. I’m getting hot just hearing about it. Did she touch your cock?”

“No.”

“I wonder why?”

“Maybe she didn’t want to seem to eager.”

“Maybe..”

“I saw Jake kiss you.”

“Yes…he did.”

“What was it like?”

“Soft and gentle. No tongue .”

“Well I’m sure he was being a gentleman.”

“Yes he was.”

“Did you check out his cock?

“Honey…of course I did.”

“And?”

“From the bulge I saw he looked to be quite endowed.”

“What gives you that impression?”

“Well I’m pretty sure he had an erection.”

“Why?”

“When he leaned back to get his phone from out of his pocket, his schlong was positioned upward and the fabric of his pants gave a nice defined outline”

“Coming from you that doesn’t surprise me. From your past experiences you generally seem to attract well hung men.”

“Yeah I guess I’m lucky in that sense Honey. I’m met and married you. You know Jake asked about you?”

“Oh what did he ask about?”

“He expressed his desire to do Very Dirty and Nasty things to you.”

“Oh.. what did you say?”

“I saw the three of us, and the two of you, and then me directing the two of you jumping in and out as I please.”

“Did you have an opportunity to touch Chiaki’s tits?”

“I did.”

“Tell me how did she respond?”

“As I brought my hand up near her chest she positioned herself allowing me to feel them.”

“Honey.. please be more specific. Did you feel her tits over her dress, or under the dress over the bra? Or directly under her bra?”

“Directly under her bra.”  Ian paused for just a moment.

“Honey..…”

“Hang on sweetheart, the phone is vibrating.”  Ian reached for his cell phone in his shirt pocket. “Hello. Hi how are you? We had a wonderful time too. I gently nudged his right arm attempting to get his attention. Ian raised his index finger on his right hand off the steering wheel. Motioning to wait a second. “We are pulling in the driveway now. Okay sounds great I’ll talk to you then.”

“Who was calling?”

Stayed Tuned for more adventures of these Daredevils of Deviance.

 

The Cat Found Her Mouse, The Dog Found His Bone: The Dinner Party: #5 of 7: Time To Say Good Night

  🔞Warning Mature Content🔞

Explicit Sexual Words & Themes

Time To Say Good Night

I leaned forward to reach for my drink Jake said “please let me get that for you”  as he handed it to me. “Thank you Darlin.” Our eyes met as he watched me bring the glass up to my lips, and sip at my drink. “Mmm I do love my Irish Cream on the rocks. Admittedly it does go straight to my head” I said smiling. “There is a sensuality in watching you sip your drink. The way you gently bring the glass up to your lips and just slightly tilt it allowing the liquid to roll into your mouth effortlessly.” I smiled playfully. “Jake.. anytime you desire placing any of your body against my lips or in my mouth you have an open invitation.” He grinned mischievously “Aahhh.. Kat don’t get me started, I’m already sporting a hard on.” “As much as I would love to touch you Jake….” I know he replied “this is definitely not the time or place.” “Jake you can be assured that my lips will touch you.”

“Kat..” “Yes Jake.” “I have to confess” As I gazed into his dreamy seductive eyes. “I’m quite attracted to Ian. His dominate features, and open-minded outlook is very appealing as are you my lovely Kat. Do you think anything could ever come to pass with us playing?” he asked with curiosity. “I  see a variety of play in our future. I foresee the three of us, and the two of you. Then I see me orchestrating, directing and adding a bit of kink in the mix” His face lit up like it was Christmas morning, as he raced to open the presents under the tree.“ I’m trying to figure out how to express to Ian my desires. I want to wrap my lips around his cock. Take him deep down my throat and make him spurt like a fountain. There are many more wicked acts I want to perform with and to him.” he expressed hungrily.

“Not to worry Jake… I have not doubt that Ian is aware of your attraction. He’s acutely observant, and I have no doubt he senses your best intentions. Perhaps you maybe surprised that he could be experiencing the same concerns as you.” I expressed compassionately.

Jake continued “I felt an overwhelming desire to fondle that magnificent outline his cock made in his pants while we talked before dinner. Of course this is not the time nor place. I believe first impressions are most important and foremost remembered” As we maintained eye contact. “I absolutely agree with you Jake.”

I expressed “Ian and I don’t participate within a social circle. Other than evenings like tonight when they are business orientated. You see Jake, Ian and I live with believing in Gratitude. Appreciating what we have, and what comes into our lives. We believe that like-minded people are brought together by unseen forces. Perhaps its the way we think outside the box, or the way we appreciate the box. This involves all aspects of our outlook regarding our relationship, sex, religion, yes and even politics. Both Ian and I need the companionship of a friend, and confidant.” Jake and I maintained eye contact as he nodded compassionately.

As Jake leaned back to reach his cell phone that was in his pant pocket. I took the opportunity to zoom in on the immensely defined bulge that outlined his crotch. Yahooo…this most definitely piqued my interest even more. “Kat would you like to exchange numbers?” “I’d like that and I have no doubt Ian feels the same way” As we were exchanging information, Ian and Chiaki were now walking back towards Jake and I. As they approach the love seat Jake leaned over and kissed me lightly on the lips.

(I didn’t see that coming, and loved it especially after that comment he made about how I drink.)

 He leaned forward picked up his drink stood up, and walked back to the love seat and sat next to Ian.

Chiaki sat down next to me on the love seat positioning herself in my direction. As she crossed her legs I could see she wasn’t wearing any panties. I caught a glimpse of her smooth-shaven snatch. (Thoughts ran wickedly as I imagined my face buried between her thighs.) “Did you enjoy dancing with Ian? Our eye’s met “yes I did, it gave us an opportunity to chat and get to know one another” she replied. Smiling I said “I’m elated the opportunity availed itself.” 

Chiaki announced “our hostess Lena is coming through the patio door right now.”  I said “its getting late I think it’s time for us to get going” Chiaki and Jake both nodded in agreement.

As Lena approached us she asked“may I refresh your drinks?” Ian replied “No thank you Lena, it’s getting late, its time for us to get going” Lena placed the empty glasses, and fruit platter on the tray, and walked into the house.

We all stood simultaneously and walked in pairs. Ian and I held hands. Jake and Chiaki walked side by side towards and through the glass door. Once inside we thanked our Host Michael and Hostess Lena for a lovely evening.

Ian and I decided to walk Chiaki and Jake to their cars. Jake walked closely to the right of me and said softly in my ear “I haven’t felt this wonderful after attending a dinner party. You have both made me feel comfortable just being me.” I put my right arm around Jake’s shoulder and turned my head in his direction, as he turned his head. Facing each other while walking I said “welcome to the family.”

First we walked Chiaki to her car. As we approached the car door she took her keys out of her clutch and disengaged the alarm. She turned and hugged Jake, and then took a step forward towards Ian and in unison they hug and then kissed lightly on the lips. She said to Ian“thank you for the lovely dance this evening. I had a Wonderful time.” 

We then gazed into each others eye’s. It was like she and I were the only ones standing out in the road.

In synch we walked towards each other. She positioned her body closely against mine. Wrapped both her arms around my shoulders, as I did to her petite figure. I could feel our tits rub against each other. That sent a jolt of lightning directly to my poonanie that endured much arousal this evening. I wanted nothing more than for us to get naked and rub and caress each others flesh. In that moment the thoughts that zipped through my mind of what I wanted to do to her body were probably illegal in most states.

She leaned upward her lips close to my ear as she spoke softly. I felt her warm breath against my ear “I will call you tomorrow, I want for us to spend the day together.” With our arms still around each other, I slightly leaned back to make eye contact. We gazed deeply. I smiled and said “I’m looking forward to seeing and spending time with you.” And then she….leaned in and kissed me so softly on the lips. This kiss made my Orchid Blush and I became considerably wet and extremely aroused. The feelings of infatuation and lust left me feeling intoxicated.

Chiaki turned around opened the driver door, and entered the car. As she started the engine she turned her head toward our direction smiled lovingly, and blew a kiss and drove off.

Ian, Jake and I walked across the street towards Jake’s car.  Jake turned to me and said “I’m looking forward to getting together, perhaps dinner?” “Yes we would like that.” “Great let me know how your schedules look.”  I said “Sounds good I’ll  call and let you know.” He turned to Ian and said “do you like to go fishing?” Ian turned in Jake’s direction and said excitedly “do I, it’s one of my many favorite hobbies.” “Fantastic! I will check out the tides, how does Saturday sound? We will take out the boat its docked at the Marina.” Ian’s face lit up with excitement.

As we approached Jake’s car, he pulled his keys out of his pocket. Disengaged the alarm. As the three of us stood in front of the driver door, Jake leaned forward and wrapped his arms around my shoulders hugging me snugly. Then leaned back and kissed me gently on the lips. “Kat it was a pleasure to have met you tonight, I’m looking forward to what the future shall bring,” I hugged him and said “Jake there are no coincides, it was meant to be I couldn’t be more delighted I’ll call you.”

Jake turned towards Ian as they simultaneously shook hands, and then gave each other a brisk hug. Jake said “I’ll be in touch to let you know about the fishing outing” Ian replied “That sounds great.” Jake opened the driver’s door entered the car, and turn the engine over. He looked in our direction and waved as he pulled away.

Ian and I walked towards our car. As we were talking about the events that took place tonight. We were in mutual agreement that there are no coincidence. This was what we both wanted for ourselves and each other. As we approached the car Ian gently and with intent pushed me against the passenger door and passionately kissed me. He said “Honey have I told you how much I love you today?” Mmmm I said “you know my memory”  We hugged each other tightly and entered the car and drove home.

Stayed Tuned for more adventures of these Daredevils of Deviance

 

 

The Cat Found Her Mouse, The Dog Found His Bone: The Dinner Party: #4 of 7: Having A Wonderful Time

🔞Warning Mature Content🔞

Explicit Sexual Words & Themes

Having A Wonderful Time

“Yes very much Kat” he said, as he leaned over and encircled me in his arms. Wafts of his cologne permeated my senses as I breathed. My tits rubbed against his muscular chest. (Aah it felt so good). I felt my nipples getting hard. ( I wanted him to pinch and squeeze them right then and there). 

(In a split second I was watching a movie in my mind’s eye of him standing in front of me slowly unbuttoning my blouse as he kisses me passionately. He slowly kissed and nibbled his way down my neck. Aah it gave me shivers all over my body. I was so aroused. I envisioned we were in my bedroom.)

(His soft masculine hands caressed and messaged my tits as he reach my hard nipples. He squeezed, pulled, bit, and suckled on them. With his index finger he lightly made a circular motion clockwise from my chest to just below my bellybutton.)

(The sensations were exhilarating. I could feel an intense energy radiate from my now throbbing wet beaver. He was in no rush and took his time to bring me up to a level of sexual arousal that when I reached, I notoriously wanted to be penetrated. Not this time he put me in my place as I found myself begging. My clit was enlarged to the point that it poked outward. As my twat throbbed and ached to be touched, licked and kissed.)

(His gentle swirling touch descended down encircling my mons that generated a heat from me that could be felt by just placing a hand near my muff. My body twitched and quivered in sheer delight. I pleaded with him. “Please, Please I can’t take it anymore.” He said “you have no choice.” The sounds that escaped my mouth were obscure.)

(He stood in front of me removed his tie and slowly unbuttoned his shirt. He then slowly bent over kissed me passionately and placed his tie around my eyes securing it behind my head. I was sightless. Ohh how I wanted to look at his young masculine physique. I could hear him unbuckle his belt. “Extend your arms” he exclaimed.) 

(He wrapped his belt snugly around my wrists. I had lost my sense of touch. I wanted desperately to run my fingers up and down his well-built chest, and dig my nails in his back as he brought me to orgasm.)

(I could hear movement “lift your hips” he said assertively. Bending my knees I raised my hips as high as I could. Pillows were placed under them my knees still bent. My snatch was now facing upward. He wrapped and secured the leather restraint around each ankle. I could hear the chains rattling ohh goodie I thought he found them, and knew what the exposed eyelets in the ceiling joists were used for. He then fastened the clasp to the eyelets in the ceiling. As I heard each click the chains began to raise my ankles high in the air.)

(He was methodical in his movement, he stroked my face lovingly as he gently angled my head to the side. He leaned over nibbled and licked my ear lobes slowly working his way to my neck savoring it like his last meal. He repositioned my head as his sensual lips met mine. Our tongues danced and darted with delight. Jake placed his right hand on my throat while his left index finger slowly swirled around each boob and protruding nipple. I began to pant, his finger moved slow and rhythmically down my stomach as he maintained pressure on my throat. Swirling and swirling until he reached my blooming Orchid. He repositioned himself between my quivering legs, and with both index fingers he outlined my protruding clit ever so gently as warm nectar flowed continually from my Flower.)

(He outlined my petals that pulsated and blushed in delight. He stopped for a moment and took pleasure in how beautiful my Flower Bloomed.“Please, Please” I begged. “If you don’t stop begging me I will draw this out even longer” he proclaimed. Our eyes met as I nodded. He gently kissed my pussy starting at the mons working his way downward to my protruding clit where he slowly licked, lapped and kissed. Unintelligible sounds spilled out of my mouth as I began to gasp and drool in sheer bliss.)

(He gently inserted his middle and ring finger into my drenched poonanie, as his tongue danced with delight on the head of my enlarged rose bud. The chains rustled as my legs quivered uncontrollably. Wave after wave of pure Ecstasy over took my body, and mind. He sensed I was near orgasm by the twitching and clenching of my cunt.)

(His lengthy breadth erect cock glistens as it continued to oozed his essence. I wanted desperately to taste him… I knew better. He was in control.)

(The head of his thick wide cock snugly entered my saturated snatch. As he stroked me deeply, he leaned forward placing his hand firmly on my throat. Each stroke was methodical. Slow and deep, pulling back just enough to feel the edges of the head of his cock rub against my outer petals. Wave after wave of pure bliss over took my body. I could not, and was not in control. This was something I had not experienced.)

(I Let go….) 

(Screams vigorously exited my mouth with delight. As we gazed lovingly into each others eyes. Jake’s rhythmic motion began to quicken with every spam and contraction of climax I had. His fervent thrusts brought him to spurt in tempo. We held each other closely as our bodies intertwined exchanging our energy.)

“Kat..Kat..” he said as he placed his hand on my shoulder. “Sorry Jake…I think my irish cream went right to my head” as I grinned wickedly. “That is exactly what I want. A connection that is based on love, passion, and open communication. I’m so tired of playing games.”

I then immediately became aware that my rose bud was erect, and my flower was in full bloom as I had released nectar on my laced panties. (Kat… the voice in my head said“timing is everything, and when its meant to be it will happen.”)

                     Stayed Tuned for more adventures of these Daredevils of Deviance.

 

My Love

My Love

You are the smile within my heart

The life within my soul

You are the joy within my laughter

The half that makes me whole

You are the twinkle in my eyes

The hope in all my dreams

You are the inspiration in all I do

You are all I need

You are my tomorrow

Your love that gives me faith

You are my forever

And this will never change

A Loving Heart is the Truest Wisdom

A Loving Heart is the Truest Wisdom

Re-Blogged

*This post has been Changed from its Original Writting and Format*

Original Post by By Dan Chiras

 http://www.motherearthnews.com/natural-health/a-loving-heart-is-the-truest-wisdom.aspx#axzz2aOG6pNdR

One of the most important lesson I’ve learned in life, I learned from my Friend, Husband, Lover, and Playmate.

A quote from novelist Charles Dickens,  “A Loving Heart Is The Truest Wisdom.”  Although it seemed brilliant, and I was drawn to it, the quote created cognitive dissonance in me.

My logical mind said: How could A Loving Heart Be The Truest Wisdom?

Love is an emotion.

 Wisdom is a cerebral function, the antithesis of emotion.

Whereas love can be foolish and blind, even outright stupid, wisdom is intelligent, clear-eyed, and directed. Love happens; wisdom is gained through experiences that lead us to deeper understandings, to knowledge as to what is right and wrong. Wise individuals are guided by knowledge, not led down blind alleys by emotion. Wisdom and love could not be farther apart, which meant they could not be one and the same, as Dickens suggests.

Over a very short period of time, I began to realize that love and wisdom are related — very closely related. By my observations, and experiences positive and negative love can inform logic. It can make us Wiser.

As A Mother of 3 Adult Men. My Partner of 22 years of Marriage. a Wise, and Loving Man who has been around the block more times than I could count. I see with great Clarity that a Loving Heart is indeed the Truest form of Wisdom.

I began to understand the relationship between Love and Wisdom more deeply as I watched my Husband. Soul Provider to care for his family. Fantastic Father, and more importantly Friend to his Adult Children.

I can see in My Children’s eyes that they’re profoundly committed to their Dad. They’ve developed into Independent, and Responsible Young Adults in our society.  I’d like to believe that through our Inspiration and Love, our Children are the Wonderful People they are today.

It is now clear too me: if we Operate Out Of Love For Others, the Quality of our Lives can Soar to New Heights.

My Shattered Heart. The broken jagged pieces that saturated with blood have healed. As I choose to put the jagged pieces back together and replenish my blood supply. This process could not have happened if I did not have an Open Loving Heart.

Our lives are so much more Peaceful and Rewarding. We can overcome much Negativity. Although sometimes this process is easier said then done.

The Dali Lama spoke of the palliative benefits of Love when he wrote, “One can Overcome the Forces of Negative Emotions, like anger and hatred, by Cultivating their Counterforce, like Love and Compassion.”

I would like to share that I was unknowingly putting myself  in a very unpleasant position (for me emotionally). Being with Very, Very Unhappy People. They exhibited emotions from anger, to disrespect for one another, and discord within all of their relationships. They possessed extremely negative energies and their general outlook was of Misery. They had no ability to acknowledge or relish in Happiness. No matter how large or small by that gift that was given by An Open Loving Heart. By the time I left, I had hoped that the Love I Spread and Shared Selflessly may not have shown outwardly. In my Loving Wisdom, I’d hoped that the Love had seeped into some dark crack or crevice that has been Closed For So Long, that it would hopefully shine a Light.

On my own personal level, I have created a warm and sacred place where My Love flows Freely.

Let your Love for Others Reign Supreme.

Let your Love guide you on to a path that is simultaneously Fulfilling and Nurturing to those whose Lives Intersect Yours.