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 The Other Woman

 She knows well enough

to respect me.

She knows better than

to ignore me.

I like her in her own right.

I tell myself we should be friends,

not just because it will be easier

but also because it’s

so rare to find

anyone who

gets me

and gets him too.

I could use more friends like her.

And I gather, so could she.

***

 Men are not just scraps of meat,

over which we

think we must fight,

only to hurt ourselves

in the process.

We do not need to fight

over this man.

We are not bitches,

but we can share

the bone

like sisters.

With a common agenda

there is much

we can do

together to further

our own needs.

So much energy

wasted either in subterfuge,

detection,

or intervention.

Better to get it out

and get on with it

than to

cower

in the shadow

of denial

or self-deception.

She knows

I saw him first,

and I know

she won’t be the last

to notice him.

She also knows

that when I

follow my nature,

there will be times I will be glad

she will be there for him,

allowing me to take my leave

when and as I choose

when the glove is on the other hand.

***

She is the perfect

Other Woman.

She knows

what it is like

to walk in my shoes

and what hurts

as well as what feels good

if she will just let it.

I understand her completely

because

I have been her

for him

when someone else was me,

and I wanted to be honest

and remain her friend,

but such was not to be.

***

And now,

as I prepare to take my leave

to explore,

to experience

something new

with someone new

I realize that once again

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

I want to have so much

in common with this

enlightened woman

who sees me as I am,

accepts me,

even encourages me

to help find pleasure

with this man

she loves so much,

I can’t help

loving

her

for the way

that

she loves him.

If women

of uncommon

consciousness

found their friends

from among

their lovers’

paramours

they would never find themselves

lonely

or friendless

again.

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

 

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The Free Rider Award

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I’m Delighted to Announce, I have Received ¬†“The Free Rider Award”

From Zed, The Free Rider and his Onager.

From the Very Talented Writing The Body: http://writingthebody.wordpress.com

I’m Deeply Touched and Flattered to Receive this¬†Prestigious¬†Award.

I hold this Gift Close To My Heart as today is my Birthday.

If you ever have the Pleasure to meet the Free Rider, and his Onager. 

Please be Kind, and Extend an open Loving Heart. It will come back to you 10 fold.

The provisions of the Free Rider award:

1.  You may give this award to someone, to no one, or indeed to many people.  As the award is of no importance, this is a matter of choice, as it would be even if it were a matter of importance.

2.  If the award is to be given to anyone else, Zed enjoins you to say what it is that you like about that person or that person’s blog, for one thing the free rider does is to pay close attention to those at hand….

3.  if there is anything further to be said about the award, it is important, to some extent, or perhaps not to any extent, that you randomly italicize words, for Zed is renowned as purveyor of randomly italicised words, and most especially of the word italic.

4.  As such an award may or may not be real, it is important, or perhaps not, at least to believe at least briefly in such things as blogs, free riders, or even Zed, or the one here whowrites the body.

SHINE ON AWARD

Shine On Award

My Dear Friend, and Fellow Blogger Jon aka Writingthebody (writingthebody.wordpress.com)

has so Thoughtfully Gifted me with this Exquisite Award.

With Accepting this Gracious Award I must complete the following questions, and pass this Award to no more than 15 Blogger’s.

¬†Please answer the following questions, and¬†pass this Award on, to no more than 15 Blogger’s.

1.  Rank these kinds of weather from best to worst: Sunny and hot, misty and cold, rain and cool, snow, ice, windy

Rain & Cool/Windy/Misty & Cold/Sunny & Hot/Snow/Ice

2.  Do you like outdoor music festivals?

I’m in agreement with Writingthebody, I don’t care for them at all!

3.  Do you like drinking water?

Yes absolutely, with freshly squeezed lemon. So Yummy

4.  Favourite alcoholic drink

I don’t drink any alcoholic beverages, although if I do on a rare occasion. I would have to say Irish Cream on the rocks.

5.  Best drug experience

Cocaine, and Amphetamines

6.  Most fun while not taking anything

Spending “Private Time” with My Lover.

7.  Greatest sorrow

The death of my Brother “Robbie”. His life was taken at the young age of 14, in 1982 from Reye’s Syndrome

As much, as I would Love to pass this Award to ALL THE BLOGGER’S THAT I FOLLOW, I’m limited to 15.

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE FOLLOWING BLOGGER’S

1. DreamlandDancing http://dreamlanddancing.wordpress.com

Your Intellectual, Creative, and Thought Provoking writings Inspire Me.

2. Kelly (slavekelly) http://aprescriptionforslavery.com

Although we are traveling on different paths within our  journey to our Enlightenment. We have a Bond & Sisterly Connection that is Dear to my Heart, that I will Always Treasure.

3. Gabriel http://beatensub.wordpress.com

I admire your Strength & Courage. Your writing’s consisting of Emotional Pain, Heartbreak, and Heartache and are to be commended

4. Alice http://aliceinwunderland41.wordpress.com

I Admire your writings of your transformation from “Vanilla” ¬†to your submissive role within the BDSM lifestyle.

5. DominatSoul http://dominantsoul.wordpress.com

Your writings on Intimacy, Sensuality, and all your topics on How To: has Definitely Enlightened My Sexuality and Sensuality.

6. Man Behind The Steel Mask http://manbehindthesteelmask.wordpress.com

Perhaps One day the Man Behind  The Mask Will Reveal Himself

7. The Wistful Sinner http://thewistfulsinner.wordpress.com

Who could ask for anything better, than your delightfully dirty posting’s

8.Kayla Lords http://kaylalords.wordpress.com

Thank you Kayla for ALL your AMAZING POST’S on A Sexual Being, and e[lust]¬†:The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. How Awesome is that site to visit : ).

9. Harsh Reality aka http://aopinionatedman.com

I Love Your I Don’t Give A #$%* Attitude

10.Mari’Mar¬†http://unravelingmarimar.wordpress.com

You offer a variety of posting’s within the submissive lifestyle. I enjoy your Blog’s very much.

11.Thoughts Of A Lunatic http://thoughtsofalunatic.com

I Love your writings, Real Life.

12. The Adventures of Little Panda http://daddyspanda.wordpress.com

I enjoy your posting’s on your submissive relationship.

13. A Dissolute Life Means.. http://adissolutelifemeans.com

Hy, I adore your starting Boob Day. Who doesn’t enjoy looking at great Breast’s : )

14. Growing Up Little http://growinguplittle.wordpress.com

Your informative posting on book reviews, and sharing your discoveries is greatly appreciated from this follower.

15 Sub-Odyssey http://subodyssey.wordpress.com

I admire your writing’s, about your experience’s as a submissive within the BDSM lifestyle.

SHARE THE LOVE AWARD

Share The Love Award

        I am Enchanted. The Writing The Body (writingthebody.wordpress.com) has bestowed me with this Endearing Award.

As I graciously accept his Kind and Thoughtful gesture.

I must complete the following:¬†Answer the following questions &¬†Pass this Award to 11 Blogger’s¬†

1.  Name an enduring sorrow, something that has lasted for over a year

January 26, 1982 the death of my 14 year old brother Robert from Reye’s Syndrome.

2. Best song that captures an enduring sorrow

Sting Angel Eye’s

3.  Band with the best lyrics

Sade 

Track Listing
1. Your Love Is King 0:00:00
2. Hang On To Your Love 0:03:39
3. Smooth Operator 0:08:12
4. Jezebel 0:12:30
5. The Sweetest Taboo 0:17:56
6. Is It a Crime 0:22:19
7. Never As Good As The First Time 0:28:36
8. Love Is Stronger Than Pride 0:32:35
9. Paradise 0:36:54
10. Nothing Can Come Betweeen Us 0:40:30
11. No Ordinary Love 0:44:24
12. Like A Tatto 0:51:43
13. Kiss Of Life 0:55:20
14. Please Send Me Someone To Love 0:59:30
15. Cherish The Day 1:3:12
16. Pearls 1:09:3

4.  Band with the best music

Pink Floyd

5. How do you relate to nature? I mean do you need it, trees, lakes, seas, mountains etc.

I’m a creature of comfort.. I stay indoors with air conditioning and relax in a comfy chair.

6. Appliance you cannot do without.

Vibrator

7. Have you ever been bullied?  describe it (if you feel ok that is)

No

8.  Did you ever sleep with someone because that would be easier than telling that person or persons, no?  Describe that…if you feel ok

No

9. is there a painter you like?  Link please…

Hieronymus Bosh http://www.hieronymus-bosch.org

Jackson Pollack  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jackson_Pollack

Michelangelo  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michelangelo

10.  favourite you tube clip…link please

Baaa

11.  Most masochistic thing about you…..this is me after all …. describe if you feel ok.

I’m Married With Children. I’m a true “Peg Bundy”.. ¬†A cigarette dangling from my lips, with an ash ready to fall on to whatever is in my path. Unlike “Peg” I’m neither miserable nor unfulfilled.

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The Award Goes To The Following Blogger’s

1. My Dear Friend, and Sister on our path to Sexual Enlightenment Kelly (slavekelly)

http://aprescriptionforslavery.com/

2. My Friend Alice, as I vicariously follow in her BDSM Adventures.

http://aliceinwunderland41.wordpress.com/

3. My Friend,  Man Behind the Mask whose poetic words are Music to my ears.

http://manbehindthesteelmask.wordpress.com/

4. DominatSoul who has enlightened my sensuality within BDSM.

http://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/

5. Elene Sallinger, Thank you so much for guiding me to avenues to enrich my writings.

http://elenesallinger.wordpress.com

6. Dreamlanddancing, My Muse

http://dreamlanddancing.wordpress.com

7. Gabriel thank you for allowing me into your world.

http://beatensub.wordpress.com

8. (Not) Invisible Woman, You’re an Amazing Woman

http://invisiblewoman13.wordpress.com

9. Seamus, I have a connection to your writings.

http://thewistfulsinner.wordpress.com

10. Kraftedkhaos for providing educational, and informative Information in the BDSM lifestyle

http://kraftedkhaos.wordpress.com

11. G, Thank you for giving us “Boobday”. Who doesn’t enjoy viewing beautiful breasts.

http://filledandfooled.wordpress.com