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Dear Friends,
We only have a 9 more days of May. Let’s take Full Advantage of Celebrating Pleasuring Ourselves.
Now we all know why Anastasia has not posted any material…

 

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May is International Masturbation Month

Good Vibrations began celebrating National Masturbation Month in 1995! Earlier that year, then-Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders was fired for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education. We were astounded. It was one of the most sensible things we’d ever heard a government official say — and it cost Elders her job! We started National Masturbation Month — now International Masturbation Month with people celebrating across the globe! — to raise awareness and to highlight the importance of masturbation for nearly everyone: it’s safe, it’s healthy, it’s free, it’s pleasurable and it helps people get to know their bodies and their sexual responses. Of all the kinds of sex people can have, masturbation is the most universal and important, yet few people talk about it freely — worse, many people still feel it is “second best” or problematic in some way. Masturbation Month lets us emphasize how great it is: it’s natural, common and fun!

Why May?

Because “the merry, merry month of May” has long been seen as symbolizing sexual awakening. Also, because “May” and “masturbation” both start with “M” — it’s nice and alliterative.

Masturbation Resources

More articles about self-love:

*Advanced Masturbation Techniques for Men

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=advanced-masturbation-techniques-for-men

*Masturbation Hall of Fame

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=masturbation-hall-of-fame

*How to Choose a Vibrator

 http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=how-to-choose-a-vibrator

*How to Choose a Dildo 

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Choose-A-Dildo

*How to Enjoy Anal Sex 

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Enjoy-Anal-Sex

*How to Female Ejaculate 

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Female-Ejaculate

*Physiology of Pleasure

http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=735

*What is an Orgasm?

 http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=what-is-an-orgas

*Masturbation Toy Shopping Guide 

http://www.goodvibes.com/display_category.jhtml?id=catalog70002_cat33920

History of the Masturbation Taboo

Almost everyone masturbates, but all too few of us are willing to admit to enjoying this simple pleasure — mostly because of the taboo against masturbation in our society, which has its roots in historical misconceptions that have survived to the present day. Concerns about masturbation tend to fall into two general categories: that masturbation is dangerously wasteful or that it’s immature. The notion that masturbation is wasteful springs from the widespread misconception that men have a finite allotment of sperm and that every ejaculation depletes precious semen, resulting in exhaustion and weakness. Although women don’t produce semen, it was once believed that masturbation was similarly destructive and debilitating to them. The belief that masturbation is such a dangerous drain on energy that it can lead to enfeeblement, illness and ultimately insanity was so persistent in 18th, 19th and even 20th century Europe and America that treatments for preventing masturbation became something of an obsession.

Turn-of-the-century magazines featured advertisements for penile rings which were spiked on the inside so that if the wearer experienced an erection during the course of the night, he’d wake from the pain. Bondage belts, restraints, straitjackets, cauterizing irons and even clitoridectomy (the surgical excision of the clitoris) were all methods used to prevent young women from masturbating. American health reformers of the 19th century preached, as in these words from John Kellogg, that masturbation was “the vilest, the basest and the most degrading act that a human being can commit.”

Although most men and women today are aware that masturbation isn’t a “degrading act,” many are still constrained by the notion that it’s a selfish, immature activity or a second-rate substitute for partner sex. We live in a society in which sexual expression has always been legislated and restricted and the pursuit of pure pleasure is frequently condemned as selfish and childish. A lot of people who consider themselves free of sexual hang-ups have simply rewritten the equation “sex is only good if it involves procreation” to “sex is only good if it involves two loving people.” The fact that masturbation is a pleasurable end in itself gets short shrift in mainstream sex manuals, which focus on masturbation as a useful tool in the building of a better sex life with one’s partner. While it’s certainly true that masturbation provides valuable information about your own and your partners’ sexual responses, masturbation is much more than a means to the exalted end of better partner sex. Masturbation is our first sexual activity, a natural source of pleasure that’s available to us throughout our lives, and a unique form of creative self-expression. Each time you masturbate, you’re celebrating your sexuality and your innate capacity for pleasure, so give yourself a hand!

Masturbation Today

While giving yourself pleasure may seem as natural as taking a breath, masturbation is by no means a widely accepted form of sexual activity. Today, in many parts of the world (including the U.S.) children are punished if they are caught masturbating, which can affect their sexuality for the rest of their lives. Adults in cultures across the globe are presented with heterosexual marriage as the only acceptable form of sexual expression. Masturbation is not honored as an important form of safer sex, much less as a way a person can love herself, learn about himself, or exercise, as one wonderful Chinese euphemism puts it, “self-comfort.”

Masturbation can be a radical act, and the culture that suppresses masturbation may suppress many other personal freedoms as well. While celebrating Masturbation Month and doing your part to bring self-love out of the closet, keep in mind that erotic freedom is essential to true well-being, everywhere.

* Copied Directly From http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=masturbation-month-facts

This piece was composed by someone very close to my heart.
The Author has given me permission to share this.
Their thoughts on their present journey.

This touched my Heart and Soul.

*

My Will

As I rest against this cold hard wall
Will
you pass me by?

*

Will

You criticize me as I sit and cry?

*

I had fought so hard and thought
that all my battles had been won.

*

Only to find the war has just begun.

*

Will
my weakness for an hour make me suffer
a lifetime?

*

Is there any other way to be,

to make me feel whole again?

*

If I’m healed, renewed, and found forgiveness within,
Will
I find the strength I’ve never had?

*

Will
my scars forever heal?

*

I

Will
turn my life over to a higher power,
and turn it all around.

*

In my most desperate circumstance it’s there
I have finally found, that I

Will

 be strong enough.

*

That I’m pure enough,
to break me,
pour me out, and start again.

*

To take a chance on Me.

 The Other Woman

 She knows well enough

to respect me.

She knows better than

to ignore me.

I like her in her own right.

I tell myself we should be friends,

not just because it will be easier

but also because it’s

so rare to find

anyone who

gets me

and gets him too.

I could use more friends like her.

And I gather, so could she.

***

 Men are not just scraps of meat,

over which we

think we must fight,

only to hurt ourselves

in the process.

We do not need to fight

over this man.

We are not bitches,

but we can share

the bone

like sisters.

With a common agenda

there is much

we can do

together to further

our own needs.

So much energy

wasted either in subterfuge,

detection,

or intervention.

Better to get it out

and get on with it

than to

cower

in the shadow

of denial

or self-deception.

She knows

I saw him first,

and I know

she won’t be the last

to notice him.

She also knows

that when I

follow my nature,

there will be times I will be glad

she will be there for him,

allowing me to take my leave

when and as I choose

when the glove is on the other hand.

***

She is the perfect

Other Woman.

She knows

what it is like

to walk in my shoes

and what hurts

as well as what feels good

if she will just let it.

I understand her completely

because

I have been her

for him

when someone else was me,

and I wanted to be honest

and remain her friend,

but such was not to be.

***

And now,

as I prepare to take my leave

to explore,

to experience

something new

with someone new

I realize that once again

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

I want to have so much

in common with this

enlightened woman

who sees me as I am,

accepts me,

even encourages me

to help find pleasure

with this man

she loves so much,

I can’t help

loving

her

for the way

that

she loves him.

If women

of uncommon

consciousness

found their friends

from among

their lovers’

paramours

they would never find themselves

lonely

or friendless

again.

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

 

When your body says yes,

but your brain says no,

listen to your heart.

If your mouth says yes,

but your heart says no

listen to your heart.

If your heart says yes,

your body will follow.

Follow your heart.

It cannot rationalize.

It doesn’t reason,

and is heedless

of excuses.

Your heart will give you strength

when your body is weak.

Your heart does not need to fear.

Follow your heart.

If your heart says no,

trust your feelings.

The heart understands

what the mind

can never comprehend.

Trust your heart

to be your compass.

Your heart knows the way

even when your brain gets lost.

Be good to your heart.

Your Heart Loves You

even when it seems

like no one else does.

Your heart will teach you

how to love yourself

in order to be able

to love another

completely and unselfishly

and without reservation.

When you Love Yourself

the others will follow.

Trust your heart.

Listen to your heart.

Follow your heart.

Every time it breaks

it gets a little bigger,

and gets a little stronger,

and you become more fearless.

Open up your heart.

Your heart will set you free.

If your heart says Yes….

Follow your heart

Always.

The Cat Found Her Mouse, The Dog Found His Bone: The Dinner Party: #4 of 7: Having A Wonderful Time

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Explicit Sexual Words & Themes

Having A Wonderful Time

Yes very much Kat” he said, as he leaned over and encircled me in his arms. Wafts of his cologne permeated my senses as I breathed. My tits rubbed against his muscular chest. (Aah it felt so good). I felt my nipples getting hard. ( I wanted him to pinch and squeeze them right then and there). 

(In a split second I was watching a movie in my mind’s eye of him standing in front of me slowly unbuttoning my blouse as he kisses me passionately. He slowly kissed and nibbled his way down my neck. Aah it gave me shivers all over my body. I was so aroused. I envisioned we were in my bedroom.)

(His soft masculine hands caressed and messaged my tits as he reach my hard nipples. He squeezed, pulled, bit, and suckled on them. With his index finger he lightly made a circular motion clockwise from my chest to just below my bellybutton.)

(The sensations were exhilarating. I could feel an intense energy radiate from my now throbbing wet beaver. He was in no rush and took his time to bring me up to a level of sexual arousal that when I reached, I notoriously wanted to be penetrated. Not this time he put me in my place as I found myself begging. My clit was enlarged to the point that it poked outward. As my twat throbbed and ached to be touched, licked and kissed.)

(His gentle swirling touch descended down encircling my mons that generated a heat from me that could be felt by just placing a hand near my muff. My body twitched and quivered in sheer delight. I pleaded with him. “Please, Please I can’t take it anymore.” He saidyou have no choice.” The sounds that escaped my mouth were obscure.)

(He stood in front of me removed his tie and slowly unbuttoned his shirt. He then slowly bent over kissed me passionately and placed his tie around my eyes securing it behind my head. I was sightless. Ohh how I wanted to look at his young masculine physique. I could hear him unbuckle his belt. “Extend your arms” he exclaimed.) 

(He wrapped his belt snugly around my wrists. I had lost my sense of touch. I wanted desperately to run my fingers up and down his well-built chest, and dig my nails in his back as he brought me to orgasm.)

(I could hear movement “lift your hips” he said assertively. Bending my knees I raised my hips as high as I could. Pillows were placed under them my knees still bent. My snatch was now facing upward. He wrapped and secured the leather restraint around each ankle. I could hear the chains rattling ohh goodie I thought he found them, and knew what the exposed eyelets in the ceiling joists were used for. He then fastened the clasp to the eyelets in the ceiling. As I heard each click the chains began to raise my ankles high in the air.)

(He was methodical in his movement, he stroked my face lovingly as he gently angled my head to the side. He leaned over nibbled and licked my ear lobes slowly working his way to my neck savoring it like his last meal. He repositioned my head as his sensual lips met mine. Our tongues danced and darted with delight. Jake placed his right hand on my throat while his left index finger slowly swirled around each boob and protruding nipple. I began to pant, his finger moved slow and rhythmically down my stomach as he maintained pressure on my throat. Swirling and swirling until he reached my blooming Orchid. He repositioned himself between my quivering legs, and with both index fingers he outlined my protruding clit ever so gently as warm nectar flowed continually from my Flower.)

(He outlined my petals that pulsated and blushed in delight. He stopped for a moment and took pleasure in how beautiful my Flower Bloomed.“Please, Please” I begged. “If you don’t stop begging me I will draw this out even longerhe proclaimed. Our eyes met as I nodded. He gently kissed my pussy starting at the mons working his way downward to my protruding clit where he slowly licked, lapped and kissed. Unintelligible sounds spilled out of my mouth as I began to gasp and drool in sheer bliss.)

(He gently inserted his middle and ring finger into my drenched poonanie, as his tongue danced with delight on the head of my enlarged rose bud. The chains rustled as my legs quivered uncontrollably. Wave after wave of pure Ecstasy over took my body, and mind. He sensed I was near orgasm by the twitching and clenching of my cunt.)

(His lengthy breadth erect cock glistens as it continued to oozed his essence. I wanted desperately to taste him… I knew better. He was in control.)

(The head of his thick wide cock snugly entered my saturated snatch. As he stroked me deeply, he leaned forward placing his hand firmly on my throat. Each stroke was methodical. Slow and deep, pulling back just enough to feel the edges of the head of his cock rub against my outer petals. Wave after wave of pure bliss over took my body. I could not, and was not in control. This was something I had not experienced.)

(I Let go….) 

(Screams vigorously exited my mouth with delight. As we gazed lovingly into each others eyes. Jake’s rhythmic motion began to quicken with every spam and contraction of climax I had. His fervent thrusts brought him to spurt in tempo. We held each other closely as our bodies intertwined exchanging our energy.)

Kat..Kat..” he said as he placed his hand on my shoulder. “Sorry Jake…I think my irish cream went right to my head” as I grinned wickedly. “That is exactly what I want. A connection that is based on love, passion, and open communication. I’m so tired of playing games.”

I then immediately became aware that my rose bud was erect, and my flower was in full bloom as I had released nectar on my laced panties. (Kat… the voice in my head said“timing is everything, and when its meant to be it will happen.”)

                     Stayed Tuned for more adventures of these Daredevils of Deviance.