A Very Special Thank You To Jayne of Diary Incarnate: Liebster Award 🏆

I have been presented this Prestigious Award by Jayne of Dairy Incarnate http://jayneayres.wordpress.com

The dictionary definition of Thank You: a polite expression used when acknowledging a gift, service, or compliment, or accepting or refusing an offer.

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My Friend, My Fellow Sister, Jayne;

Thank You doesn’t express the Gratitude I feel by Your Gift and Friendship.

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 Here are the rules:

1. Thank the person who nominated you and post a link to their blog on your blog.✔️

2. Display the award on your blog by including it in your post and/or displaying it using a “widget” or a “gadget”.✔️

3. Answer 11 questions about yourself which will be provided to you by the person who nominated you.✔️

                                                                             4. Provide 11 random facts about yourself.✔️

5. Nominate 5 – 11 blogs you feel deserve this award, who have less than 1000 followers.✔️

6. Create a new list of questions for the blogger to answer. ✔️

7. List these rules on your post.✔️

Once you have written published it, you then have to:

8. Inform people/blogs that they have been nominated for the Liebster Award and provide a link for them to your post so they can learn about it (they might not have heard of it!) ✔️

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Questions By Jayne:

  1. Do you collect anything and what is it?  Yes. Angels, Fairies, Cats, Metaphysical related tools i.e. Crystals & Stones, Herbs, Candles, Books.

2. What trait do you have that irritates other people? Mmmm.. I know what traits I have that Irritates Hubby and the Kids. Without sounded like the “Perfect Angel” I really can’t recall anyone ever saying “When you do xxx that irritates me.”  When I’m frustrated (which seems to be an ongoing feeling) about let say the phone bill. I’ll call and express my displeasure of the service or charge. I may initially exhibit a tone in my voice, and by the end of the call I will apologize to the representative for sounding kurt or rude after they have been patient and courteous with me.

3. What type of person are you at a friendly party? Is this a Swinger’s Party, a Casual Get Together, or Family Related?  I would say I’m out going. I will walk up to a guest and introduce myself, and start a conversation.

4.  What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail? 1. I want to drift http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drifting_(motorsport) our 300Z at high speeds on a mountain along a winding road that over looks the ocean. Failing would be loosing control and driving over the side and ending up on the “Other Side”. (We don’t live where there are mountains, although I do live very close to the ocean without the narrow winding road)

2. Intentionally be defibrillated http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Defibrillate go into cardiac arrest to visit the “Other Side”, and then be successfully resuscitated without any complication or injury to my heart or brain. To experience the journey of death, and be able to share my experience when I return to this dimension.

5.  What sense would you give up if you had to? I’m a smoker so sadly my sense of Taste and Smell is not that of one who has never smoked. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taste. Sorry didn’t really answer the question…

6.  What was your favorite toy when you were a little kid? Colorforms http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colorforms Love Dolls http://www.barbigirl.com/love.htm Mattel Sunshine Family Dolls http://www.dollreference.com/mattel_sunshine_happy_family_dolls.html

7. Do you have a weird memory from when you were a kid?  Sharing Very Personal Info: When I was 8 or 9 I was inappropriately touched and had another sexual act done to me, not penetration. This inappropriate behavior was by a neighbor who was then had to be in his 50’s, and lived in the same apartment complex.  I knew it wasn’t right but I remember it felt good. After that occurred I made a point to never see this man again. I never told my parents. Weirdly, I don’t consider myself to have been molested, or sexually assaulted. This never affected my sexuality, relationships nor my self-esteem.

8. Do you believe that open toed high heels are inappropriate attire for a female to wear to work? No. I personally don’t care for wearing any open toe style shoes.

9. Do you know or have you heard of any women that wake up and pee in the shower when they are  getting “dressed and ready” in the morning? Yes Me, when Hubby is on the Throne, and I can’t make it to the 2nd bathroom. 

10. Can you tell me about one of the most beautiful vistas you have ever seen? Many, many, many moons ago. One night while driving home from visiting the Chicago Aquarium. We were listening to N.P.R. http://www.npr.org there were no other radio stations other than religious or country music available. As we began to listen to this incredible music by Hearts Of Space. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hearts_of_space. We entered into a Lightening Storm. As the music played the night sky lit from one horizon to another. We had entered into a dimension where music and energy were in rhythm. We were in awe by listening to the music while being treated to this light show provided by the universe. Words can’t possibly describe this Once In A Life Time Experience. To have seen the Intensity of this Light show in combination with the most beautiful musical accompaniment was beyond seeing any laser/music show.

     I don’t recall the title of the song we listened to that night. I wanted to share a piece of this beautiful music.

11. If you could instantly have another education and full range of knowledge about a subject mater that would put you in a career you can’t have right this moment, what would it be? Law to attain my degree as an Attorney, and then to retain a seat as Circuit Judge.

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11 Random Facts About Me

1. I enjoy Connecting and Interacting with the Blogger’s, Writer’s, and Author’s in our community.

2. I believe there is a “Spiritual Life” after death, and our Loved Ones that have passed over Watch, Protect and Guide us.

3. I see images of people, animals, eyes, and orbs in  “everyday” photos.

4. I’m seeking a “Female Lover” for us to have a “Triad” marital relationship.

5. In a year (I) We will be  “Empty Nest” Parents. I’m feeling a lot of mixed emotions. I’m savoring every minute of time I have left with our youngest, feeling very sad, and enlightened that Hubby and I will venture into the next phase of our lives. (and be able to express myself vocally in the heat of passion without a bang on the wall)

6. I’m frustrated about My Life and not being able to Live it to the Fullest. (Pain management issues)

7. Although our marital  journey has had many ups and downs, after 24 years we are Deeply In Love with each other.

8. I’m Truly Married to My Soul Mate.

9. The medications I take numb my ability to venture into my creative mind, and that Frustrates Me.

10. I wished I had the gift of writing like All of the Amazing People I follow.

11. I’m a “sucker” for the reality show on Bravo  “The Housewives of N.Y.”, Orange County, B.H., and N.J.

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And The Award Goes To:

Tag! You’re It! Pass it on or simply enjoy, as if it were a box of Godiva Chocolates.

Arianna of http://vilesarianna.wordpress.com

Killingdanse of http://perfectioninmadness.com

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Alice of http://dirtygirl69.com

Jennifer of http://jennifunzing.wordpress.com

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KDaddy of http://kdaddy23.wordpress.com

Steve & 1Hotwife of http://lovesmallpenis.wordpress.com

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H.H. & Lola of http://mysexlifewithlola.com

Master & Princess of http://rubbersubmission.wordpress.com

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The Elite Vixens of http://thevixens.wordpress.com

John of http://writingthebody.wordpress.com

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Fatal of http://yougotomyhead.wordpress.com

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Per The Rules I’m to Create 10 Questions For Those I Have Awarded:

1. If you could be any animal, what animal would you be ?

2. If You acquired a boat what would You name her?

3. What is your favorite smell?

4. Would you ever live outside your comfort zone for 30 days? (whatever that interpretation means to you. i.e. no technology, no television, living in a shelter or without electricity) Please Share

5. Do you have any phobias?

6. What’s the Most dangerous thing You have done?

7. What is your Astrological sign, and do you feel you possess those characteristics?

8. Do you believe that the color of a room affects your mood? What color(s) soothes you.

9. Do you donate blood?

10. If you could be the opposite sex for 30 days would you?

The Other Woman

 The Other Woman

 She knows well enough

to respect me.

She knows better than

to ignore me.

I like her in her own right.

I tell myself we should be friends,

not just because it will be easier

but also because it’s

so rare to find

anyone who

gets me

and gets him too.

I could use more friends like her.

And I gather, so could she.

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 Men are not just scraps of meat,

over which we

think we must fight,

only to hurt ourselves

in the process.

We do not need to fight

over this man.

We are not bitches,

but we can share

the bone

like sisters.

With a common agenda

there is much

we can do

together to further

our own needs.

So much energy

wasted either in subterfuge,

detection,

or intervention.

Better to get it out

and get on with it

than to

cower

in the shadow

of denial

or self-deception.

She knows

I saw him first,

and I know

she won’t be the last

to notice him.

She also knows

that when I

follow my nature,

there will be times I will be glad

she will be there for him,

allowing me to take my leave

when and as I choose

when the glove is on the other hand.

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She is the perfect

Other Woman.

She knows

what it is like

to walk in my shoes

and what hurts

as well as what feels good

if she will just let it.

I understand her completely

because

I have been her

for him

when someone else was me,

and I wanted to be honest

and remain her friend,

but such was not to be.

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And now,

as I prepare to take my leave

to explore,

to experience

something new

with someone new

I realize that once again

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

I want to have so much

in common with this

enlightened woman

who sees me as I am,

accepts me,

even encourages me

to help find pleasure

with this man

she loves so much,

I can’t help

loving

her

for the way

that

she loves him.

If women

of uncommon

consciousness

found their friends

from among

their lovers’

paramours

they would never find themselves

lonely

or friendless

again.

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

 

The Cat Found Her Mouse, The Dog Found His Bone: The Dinner Party: #5 of 7: Time To Say Good Night

  🔞Warning Mature Content🔞

Explicit Sexual Words & Themes

Time To Say Good Night

I leaned forward to reach for my drink Jake said “please let me get that for you”  as he handed it to me. “Thank you Darlin.” Our eyes met as he watched me bring the glass up to my lips, and sip at my drink. “Mmm I do love my Irish Cream on the rocks. Admittedly it does go straight to my head” I said smiling. “There is a sensuality in watching you sip your drink. The way you gently bring the glass up to your lips and just slightly tilt it allowing the liquid to roll into your mouth effortlessly.” I smiled playfully. “Jake.. anytime you desire placing any of your body against my lips or in my mouth you have an open invitation.” He grinned mischievously “Aahhh.. Kat don’t get me started, I’m already sporting a hard on.” “As much as I would love to touch you Jake….” I know he replied “this is definitely not the time or place.” “Jake you can be assured that my lips will touch you.”

“Kat..” “Yes Jake.” “I have to confess” As I gazed into his dreamy seductive eyes. “I’m quite attracted to Ian. His dominate features, and open-minded outlook is very appealing as are you my lovely Kat. Do you think anything could ever come to pass with us playing?” he asked with curiosity. “I  see a variety of play in our future. I foresee the three of us, and the two of you. Then I see me orchestrating, directing and adding a bit of kink in the mix” His face lit up like it was Christmas morning, as he raced to open the presents under the tree.“ I’m trying to figure out how to express to Ian my desires. I want to wrap my lips around his cock. Take him deep down my throat and make him spurt like a fountain. There are many more wicked acts I want to perform with and to him.” he expressed hungrily.

“Not to worry Jake… I have not doubt that Ian is aware of your attraction. He’s acutely observant, and I have no doubt he senses your best intentions. Perhaps you maybe surprised that he could be experiencing the same concerns as you.” I expressed compassionately.

Jake continued “I felt an overwhelming desire to fondle that magnificent outline his cock made in his pants while we talked before dinner. Of course this is not the time nor place. I believe first impressions are most important and foremost remembered” As we maintained eye contact. “I absolutely agree with you Jake.”

I expressed “Ian and I don’t participate within a social circle. Other than evenings like tonight when they are business orientated. You see Jake, Ian and I live with believing in Gratitude. Appreciating what we have, and what comes into our lives. We believe that like-minded people are brought together by unseen forces. Perhaps its the way we think outside the box, or the way we appreciate the box. This involves all aspects of our outlook regarding our relationship, sex, religion, yes and even politics. Both Ian and I need the companionship of a friend, and confidant.” Jake and I maintained eye contact as he nodded compassionately.

As Jake leaned back to reach his cell phone that was in his pant pocket. I took the opportunity to zoom in on the immensely defined bulge that outlined his crotch. Yahooo…this most definitely piqued my interest even more. “Kat would you like to exchange numbers?” “I’d like that and I have no doubt Ian feels the same way” As we were exchanging information, Ian and Chiaki were now walking back towards Jake and I. As they approach the love seat Jake leaned over and kissed me lightly on the lips.

(I didn’t see that coming, and loved it especially after that comment he made about how I drink.)

 He leaned forward picked up his drink stood up, and walked back to the love seat and sat next to Ian.

Chiaki sat down next to me on the love seat positioning herself in my direction. As she crossed her legs I could see she wasn’t wearing any panties. I caught a glimpse of her smooth-shaven snatch. (Thoughts ran wickedly as I imagined my face buried between her thighs.) “Did you enjoy dancing with Ian? Our eye’s met “yes I did, it gave us an opportunity to chat and get to know one another” she replied. Smiling I said “I’m elated the opportunity availed itself.” 

Chiaki announced “our hostess Lena is coming through the patio door right now.”  I said “its getting late I think it’s time for us to get going” Chiaki and Jake both nodded in agreement.

As Lena approached us she asked“may I refresh your drinks?” Ian replied “No thank you Lena, it’s getting late, its time for us to get going” Lena placed the empty glasses, and fruit platter on the tray, and walked into the house.

We all stood simultaneously and walked in pairs. Ian and I held hands. Jake and Chiaki walked side by side towards and through the glass door. Once inside we thanked our Host Michael and Hostess Lena for a lovely evening.

Ian and I decided to walk Chiaki and Jake to their cars. Jake walked closely to the right of me and said softly in my ear “I haven’t felt this wonderful after attending a dinner party. You have both made me feel comfortable just being me.” I put my right arm around Jake’s shoulder and turned my head in his direction, as he turned his head. Facing each other while walking I said “welcome to the family.”

First we walked Chiaki to her car. As we approached the car door she took her keys out of her clutch and disengaged the alarm. She turned and hugged Jake, and then took a step forward towards Ian and in unison they hug and then kissed lightly on the lips. She said to Ian“thank you for the lovely dance this evening. I had a Wonderful time.” 

We then gazed into each others eye’s. It was like she and I were the only ones standing out in the road.

In synch we walked towards each other. She positioned her body closely against mine. Wrapped both her arms around my shoulders, as I did to her petite figure. I could feel our tits rub against each other. That sent a jolt of lightning directly to my poonanie that endured much arousal this evening. I wanted nothing more than for us to get naked and rub and caress each others flesh. In that moment the thoughts that zipped through my mind of what I wanted to do to her body were probably illegal in most states.

She leaned upward her lips close to my ear as she spoke softly. I felt her warm breath against my ear “I will call you tomorrow, I want for us to spend the day together.” With our arms still around each other, I slightly leaned back to make eye contact. We gazed deeply. I smiled and said “I’m looking forward to seeing and spending time with you.” And then she….leaned in and kissed me so softly on the lips. This kiss made my Orchid Blush and I became considerably wet and extremely aroused. The feelings of infatuation and lust left me feeling intoxicated.

Chiaki turned around opened the driver door, and entered the car. As she started the engine she turned her head toward our direction smiled lovingly, and blew a kiss and drove off.

Ian, Jake and I walked across the street towards Jake’s car.  Jake turned to me and said “I’m looking forward to getting together, perhaps dinner?” “Yes we would like that.” “Great let me know how your schedules look.”  I said “Sounds good I’ll  call and let you know.” He turned to Ian and said “do you like to go fishing?” Ian turned in Jake’s direction and said excitedly “do I, it’s one of my many favorite hobbies.” “Fantastic! I will check out the tides, how does Saturday sound? We will take out the boat its docked at the Marina.” Ian’s face lit up with excitement.

As we approached Jake’s car, he pulled his keys out of his pocket. Disengaged the alarm. As the three of us stood in front of the driver door, Jake leaned forward and wrapped his arms around my shoulders hugging me snugly. Then leaned back and kissed me gently on the lips. “Kat it was a pleasure to have met you tonight, I’m looking forward to what the future shall bring,” I hugged him and said “Jake there are no coincides, it was meant to be I couldn’t be more delighted I’ll call you.”

Jake turned towards Ian as they simultaneously shook hands, and then gave each other a brisk hug. Jake said “I’ll be in touch to let you know about the fishing outing” Ian replied “That sounds great.” Jake opened the driver’s door entered the car, and turn the engine over. He looked in our direction and waved as he pulled away.

Ian and I walked towards our car. As we were talking about the events that took place tonight. We were in mutual agreement that there are no coincidence. This was what we both wanted for ourselves and each other. As we approached the car Ian gently and with intent pushed me against the passenger door and passionately kissed me. He said “Honey have I told you how much I love you today?” Mmmm I said “you know my memory”  We hugged each other tightly and entered the car and drove home.

Stayed Tuned for more adventures of these Daredevils of Deviance

 

 

A Loving Heart is the Truest Wisdom

A Loving Heart is the Truest Wisdom

Re-Blogged

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Original Post by By Dan Chiras

 http://www.motherearthnews.com/natural-health/a-loving-heart-is-the-truest-wisdom.aspx#axzz2aOG6pNdR

One of the most important lesson I’ve learned in life, I learned from my Friend, Husband, Lover, and Playmate.

A quote from novelist Charles Dickens,  “A Loving Heart Is The Truest Wisdom.”  Although it seemed brilliant, and I was drawn to it, the quote created cognitive dissonance in me.

My logical mind said: How could A Loving Heart Be The Truest Wisdom?

Love is an emotion.

 Wisdom is a cerebral function, the antithesis of emotion.

Whereas love can be foolish and blind, even outright stupid, wisdom is intelligent, clear-eyed, and directed. Love happens; wisdom is gained through experiences that lead us to deeper understandings, to knowledge as to what is right and wrong. Wise individuals are guided by knowledge, not led down blind alleys by emotion. Wisdom and love could not be farther apart, which meant they could not be one and the same, as Dickens suggests.

Over a very short period of time, I began to realize that love and wisdom are related — very closely related. By my observations, and experiences positive and negative love can inform logic. It can make us Wiser.

As A Mother of 3 Adult Men. My Partner of 22 years of Marriage. a Wise, and Loving Man who has been around the block more times than I could count. I see with great Clarity that a Loving Heart is indeed the Truest form of Wisdom.

I began to understand the relationship between Love and Wisdom more deeply as I watched my Husband. Soul Provider to care for his family. Fantastic Father, and more importantly Friend to his Adult Children.

I can see in My Children’s eyes that they’re profoundly committed to their Dad. They’ve developed into Independent, and Responsible Young Adults in our society.  I’d like to believe that through our Inspiration and Love, our Children are the Wonderful People they are today.

It is now clear too me: if we Operate Out Of Love For Others, the Quality of our Lives can Soar to New Heights.

My Shattered Heart. The broken jagged pieces that saturated with blood have healed. As I choose to put the jagged pieces back together and replenish my blood supply. This process could not have happened if I did not have an Open Loving Heart.

Our lives are so much more Peaceful and Rewarding. We can overcome much Negativity. Although sometimes this process is easier said then done.

The Dali Lama spoke of the palliative benefits of Love when he wrote, “One can Overcome the Forces of Negative Emotions, like anger and hatred, by Cultivating their Counterforce, like Love and Compassion.”

I would like to share that I was unknowingly putting myself  in a very unpleasant position (for me emotionally). Being with Very, Very Unhappy People. They exhibited emotions from anger, to disrespect for one another, and discord within all of their relationships. They possessed extremely negative energies and their general outlook was of Misery. They had no ability to acknowledge or relish in Happiness. No matter how large or small by that gift that was given by An Open Loving Heart. By the time I left, I had hoped that the Love I Spread and Shared Selflessly may not have shown outwardly. In my Loving Wisdom, I’d hoped that the Love had seeped into some dark crack or crevice that has been Closed For So Long, that it would hopefully shine a Light.

On my own personal level, I have created a warm and sacred place where My Love flows Freely.

Let your Love for Others Reign Supreme.

Let your Love guide you on to a path that is simultaneously Fulfilling and Nurturing to those whose Lives Intersect Yours.