I had Envisioned meeting Her
for Oh so long.
🌹
She Was Her Own Woman.
🌹
She possessed Everything I had Imagined.
🌹
We Connected, and Bonded
it was meant to be.
🌹
She was Bent, not Broken
just like me.
🌹
She Trusted, and Shared
the Spark
between Us was visibly there.
🌹
He entered the room smiling
as we lay there before him,
knowing she had met her match.
🌹
We playfully Seduced
his Mind, Body, and Soul.
As we Shared our
new-found Discovery of each other.
Good Vibrations began celebrating National Masturbation Month in 1995! Earlier that year, then-Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders was fired for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education. We were astounded. It was one of the most sensible things we’d ever heard a government official say — and it cost Elders her job! We started National Masturbation Month — now International Masturbation Month with people celebrating across the globe! — to raise awareness and to highlight the importance of masturbation for nearly everyone: it’s safe, it’s healthy, it’s free, it’s pleasurable and it helps people get to know their bodies and their sexual responses. Of all the kinds of sex people can have, masturbation is the most universal and important, yet few people talk about it freely — worse, many people still feel it is “second best” or problematic in some way. Masturbation Month lets us emphasize how great it is: it’s natural, common and fun!
Because “the merry, merry month of May” has long been seen as symbolizing sexual awakening. Also, because “May” and “masturbation” both start with “M” — it’s nice and alliterative.
More articles about self-love:
*Advanced Masturbation Techniques for Men
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=advanced-masturbation-techniques-for-men
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=masturbation-hall-of-fame
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=how-to-choose-a-vibrator
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Choose-A-Dildo
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Enjoy-Anal-Sex
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=How-To-Female-Ejaculate
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=735
http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=what-is-an-orgas
*Masturbation Toy Shopping Guide
http://www.goodvibes.com/display_category.jhtml?id=catalog70002_cat33920
Almost everyone masturbates, but all too few of us are willing to admit to enjoying this simple pleasure — mostly because of the taboo against masturbation in our society, which has its roots in historical misconceptions that have survived to the present day. Concerns about masturbation tend to fall into two general categories: that masturbation is dangerously wasteful or that it’s immature. The notion that masturbation is wasteful springs from the widespread misconception that men have a finite allotment of sperm and that every ejaculation depletes precious semen, resulting in exhaustion and weakness. Although women don’t produce semen, it was once believed that masturbation was similarly destructive and debilitating to them. The belief that masturbation is such a dangerous drain on energy that it can lead to enfeeblement, illness and ultimately insanity was so persistent in 18th, 19th and even 20th century Europe and America that treatments for preventing masturbation became something of an obsession.
Turn-of-the-century magazines featured advertisements for penile rings which were spiked on the inside so that if the wearer experienced an erection during the course of the night, he’d wake from the pain. Bondage belts, restraints, straitjackets, cauterizing irons and even clitoridectomy (the surgical excision of the clitoris) were all methods used to prevent young women from masturbating. American health reformers of the 19th century preached, as in these words from John Kellogg, that masturbation was “the vilest, the basest and the most degrading act that a human being can commit.”
Although most men and women today are aware that masturbation isn’t a “degrading act,” many are still constrained by the notion that it’s a selfish, immature activity or a second-rate substitute for partner sex. We live in a society in which sexual expression has always been legislated and restricted and the pursuit of pure pleasure is frequently condemned as selfish and childish. A lot of people who consider themselves free of sexual hang-ups have simply rewritten the equation “sex is only good if it involves procreation” to “sex is only good if it involves two loving people.” The fact that masturbation is a pleasurable end in itself gets short shrift in mainstream sex manuals, which focus on masturbation as a useful tool in the building of a better sex life with one’s partner. While it’s certainly true that masturbation provides valuable information about your own and your partners’ sexual responses, masturbation is much more than a means to the exalted end of better partner sex. Masturbation is our first sexual activity, a natural source of pleasure that’s available to us throughout our lives, and a unique form of creative self-expression. Each time you masturbate, you’re celebrating your sexuality and your innate capacity for pleasure, so give yourself a hand!
While giving yourself pleasure may seem as natural as taking a breath, masturbation is by no means a widely accepted form of sexual activity. Today, in many parts of the world (including the U.S.) children are punished if they are caught masturbating, which can affect their sexuality for the rest of their lives. Adults in cultures across the globe are presented with heterosexual marriage as the only acceptable form of sexual expression. Masturbation is not honored as an important form of safer sex, much less as a way a person can love herself, learn about himself, or exercise, as one wonderful Chinese euphemism puts it, “self-comfort.”
Masturbation can be a radical act, and the culture that suppresses masturbation may suppress many other personal freedoms as well. While celebrating Masturbation Month and doing your part to bring self-love out of the closet, keep in mind that erotic freedom is essential to true well-being, everywhere.
* Copied Directly From http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=masturbation-month-facts
SHINE ON AWARD
My Dear Friend, and Fellow Blogger Jon aka Writingthebody (writingthebody.wordpress.com)
has so Thoughtfully Gifted me with this Exquisite Award.
With Accepting this Gracious Award I must complete the following questions, and pass this Award to no more than 15 Blogger’s.
Please answer the following questions, and pass this Award on, to no more than 15 Blogger’s.
1. Rank these kinds of weather from best to worst: Sunny and hot, misty and cold, rain and cool, snow, ice, windy
Rain & Cool/Windy/Misty & Cold/Sunny & Hot/Snow/Ice
2. Do you like outdoor music festivals?
I’m in agreement with Writingthebody, I don’t care for them at all!
3. Do you like drinking water?
Yes absolutely, with freshly squeezed lemon. So Yummy
4. Favourite alcoholic drink
I don’t drink any alcoholic beverages, although if I do on a rare occasion. I would have to say Irish Cream on the rocks.
5. Best drug experience
Cocaine, and Amphetamines
6. Most fun while not taking anything
Spending “Private Time” with My Lover.
7. Greatest sorrow
The death of my Brother “Robbie”. His life was taken at the young age of 14, in 1982 from Reye’s Syndrome
As much, as I would Love to pass this Award to ALL THE BLOGGER’S THAT I FOLLOW, I’m limited to 15.
CONGRATULATIONS TO THE FOLLOWING BLOGGER’S
1. DreamlandDancing http://dreamlanddancing.wordpress.com
Your Intellectual, Creative, and Thought Provoking writings Inspire Me.
2. Kelly (slavekelly) http://aprescriptionforslavery.com
Although we are traveling on different paths within our journey to our Enlightenment. We have a Bond & Sisterly Connection that is Dear to my Heart, that I will Always Treasure.
3. Gabriel http://beatensub.wordpress.com
I admire your Strength & Courage. Your writing’s consisting of Emotional Pain, Heartbreak, and Heartache and are to be commended
4. Alice http://aliceinwunderland41.wordpress.com
I Admire your writings of your transformation from “Vanilla” to your submissive role within the BDSM lifestyle.
5. DominatSoul http://dominantsoul.wordpress.com
Your writings on Intimacy, Sensuality, and all your topics on How To: has Definitely Enlightened My Sexuality and Sensuality.
6. Man Behind The Steel Mask http://manbehindthesteelmask.wordpress.com
Perhaps One day the Man Behind The Mask Will Reveal Himself
7. The Wistful Sinner http://thewistfulsinner.wordpress.com
Who could ask for anything better, than your delightfully dirty posting’s
8.Kayla Lords http://kaylalords.wordpress.com
Thank you Kayla for ALL your AMAZING POST’S on A Sexual Being, and e[lust] :The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. How Awesome is that site to visit : ).
9. Harsh Reality aka http://aopinionatedman.com
I Love Your I Don’t Give A #$%* Attitude
10.Mari’Mar http://unravelingmarimar.wordpress.com
You offer a variety of posting’s within the submissive lifestyle. I enjoy your Blog’s very much.
11.Thoughts Of A Lunatic http://thoughtsofalunatic.com
I Love your writings, Real Life.
12. The Adventures of Little Panda http://daddyspanda.wordpress.com
I enjoy your posting’s on your submissive relationship.
13. A Dissolute Life Means.. http://adissolutelifemeans.com
Hy, I adore your starting Boob Day. Who doesn’t enjoy looking at great Breast’s : )
14. Growing Up Little http://growinguplittle.wordpress.com
Your informative posting on book reviews, and sharing your discoveries is greatly appreciated from this follower.
15 Sub-Odyssey http://subodyssey.wordpress.com
I admire your writing’s, about your experience’s as a submissive within the BDSM lifestyle.
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