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It is an Honor To Accept This Celebrated Award From:

My Very Dear Friend,

John of WritingTheBody


The Rules:

Nominate 14 (that is my 7 (John’s) + 7 Blogger’s ✔️

Let them know you got it from me. ✔️

Answer The Following Questions: ✔️


1. What music did you last play on your player?

Heart Of The Sunrise by Yes

2. What is the last movie you watched at the cinema?

I have not been to the theater in ages. It’s also difficult to sit for an extended period of time.

My answer is based on the last dvd we watched last week.

One Of My Ultimate Favorites: Hedwig And The Angry Inch


3. What is the best thing that happened to you this year?

The Best Thing(s): The Dynamics of our Marriage/Relationship. Connecting/Interacting/Be-Friending all the Wonderful People within our Blogging Community.


Tag! You’re It! Pass It On,

Or Enjoy This Box Of Godiva Chocolates From Me To You.


The Award Goes To:

Lora of

Lizzy of


Emme of

Chazz of


Eric of

Errant of


Khawaja of Immature Fruit

Benjamin Prewitt of Expressions Of My Life


Dawn of

Izaak of


Matt of

Revealed Woman of


S.J of S.j’s Blog

Alejandro & Guinivere of

❤️ Anastasia ❤️


 The Other Woman

 She knows well enough

to respect me.

She knows better than

to ignore me.

I like her in her own right.

I tell myself we should be friends,

not just because it will be easier

but also because it’s

so rare to find

anyone who

gets me

and gets him too.

I could use more friends like her.

And I gather, so could she.


 Men are not just scraps of meat,

over which we

think we must fight,

only to hurt ourselves

in the process.

We do not need to fight

over this man.

We are not bitches,

but we can share

the bone

like sisters.

With a common agenda

there is much

we can do

together to further

our own needs.

So much energy

wasted either in subterfuge,


or intervention.

Better to get it out

and get on with it

than to


in the shadow

of denial

or self-deception.

She knows

I saw him first,

and I know

she won’t be the last

to notice him.

She also knows

that when I

follow my nature,

there will be times I will be glad

she will be there for him,

allowing me to take my leave

when and as I choose

when the glove is on the other hand.


She is the perfect

Other Woman.

She knows

what it is like

to walk in my shoes

and what hurts

as well as what feels good

if she will just let it.

I understand her completely


I have been her

for him

when someone else was me,

and I wanted to be honest

and remain her friend,

but such was not to be.


And now,

as I prepare to take my leave

to explore,

to experience

something new

with someone new

I realize that once again

I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.

I want to have so much

in common with this

enlightened woman

who sees me as I am,

accepts me,

even encourages me

to help find pleasure

with this man

she loves so much,

I can’t help



for the way


she loves him.

If women

of uncommon


found their friends

from among

their lovers’


they would never find themselves


or friendless


I am the Other Woman

just as much as she is me.


When your body says yes,

but your brain says no,

listen to your heart.

If your mouth says yes,

but your heart says no

listen to your heart.

If your heart says yes,

your body will follow.

Follow your heart.

It cannot rationalize.

It doesn’t reason,

and is heedless

of excuses.

Your heart will give you strength

when your body is weak.

Your heart does not need to fear.

Follow your heart.

If your heart says no,

trust your feelings.

The heart understands

what the mind

can never comprehend.

Trust your heart

to be your compass.

Your heart knows the way

even when your brain gets lost.

Be good to your heart.

Your Heart Loves You

even when it seems

like no one else does.

Your heart will teach you

how to love yourself

in order to be able

to love another

completely and unselfishly

and without reservation.

When you Love Yourself

the others will follow.

Trust your heart.

Listen to your heart.

Follow your heart.

Every time it breaks

it gets a little bigger,

and gets a little stronger,

and you become more fearless.

Open up your heart.

Your heart will set you free.

If your heart says Yes….

Follow your heart


The Cat Found Her Mouse, The Dog Found His Bone: The Dinner Party: #5 of 7: Time To Say Good Night

Posted: December 10, 2013 in Adult Content, Affection, Affectionately Curious, Alcoholic Beverage, Alpha Male, Always Treasure, Appreciation, Assertive Women, Assume The Position, Attraction, Bi-Sexuality, Body, Body Parts, Boobs, Breast, Connection, Daredevils Of Deviance, Daydreams, Delightfully Dirty, Departure, Desire, Desires, Dinner Party, Dreams, Embraced, Empowered Women, Enchanted, Energies, Explicit Sexual Language, Fantasies, Fellatio, Flesh Penetrate, Gracious, Gratitude, Happiness, Having A Wonderful Time, Having Your Cake And Eating It Too, Hidden Desires, I Love You, Inqiuring Minds, Inspiration, Intimacy, Knowledge, Life Lesson, Literotica, Love, Love and Compassion, Love At First Sight, Love Happens, Loyal, Lust, Lust At First Sight, Marriage, Mature Theme, Mind's Eye, My Love, My Lover, My Pet, My Sexuality, No Place Like Home, Observant Body Language, One Door Opens Another Closes, Open Loving Heart, Operate Out Of Love For Others, Orchid, Passion, Perverted, Primal, Pursuit Of Forbidden Pleasures, Push The Limits, Razor's Edge, Relationship, Rigid, Sensuality, Sexual Chicken, Sexuality, Smile, Soul Mates, Spiritual, Spirituality, Strength & Courage, Tenderness, Theater Of The Mind, Timing Is Everything, Touched, Women, Wunderlust, Yin Yang
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  🔞Warning Mature Content🔞

Explicit Sexual Words & Themes

Time To Say Good Night

I leaned forward to reach for my drink Jake said “please let me get that for you”  as he handed it to me. “Thank you Darlin.” Our eyes met as he watched me bring the glass up to my lips, and sip at my drink. “Mmm I do love my Irish Cream on the rocks. Admittedly it does go straight to my head” I said smiling. “There is a sensuality in watching you sip your drink. The way you gently bring the glass up to your lips and just slightly tilt it allowing the liquid to roll into your mouth effortlessly.” I smiled playfully. “Jake.. anytime you desire placing any of your body against my lips or in my mouth you have an open invitation.” He grinned mischievously “Aahhh.. Kat don’t get me started, I’m already sporting a hard on.” “As much as I would love to touch you Jake….” I know he replied “this is definitely not the time or place.” “Jake you can be assured that my lips will touch you.”

“Kat..” “Yes Jake.” “I have to confess” As I gazed into his dreamy seductive eyes. “I’m quite attracted to Ian. His dominate features, and open-minded outlook is very appealing as are you my lovely Kat. Do you think anything could ever come to pass with us playing?” he asked with curiosity. “I  see a variety of play in our future. I foresee the three of us, and the two of you. Then I see me orchestrating, directing and adding a bit of kink in the mix” His face lit up like it was Christmas morning, as he raced to open the presents under the tree.“ I’m trying to figure out how to express to Ian my desires. I want to wrap my lips around his cock. Take him deep down my throat and make him spurt like a fountain. There are many more wicked acts I want to perform with and to him.” he expressed hungrily.

“Not to worry Jake… I have not doubt that Ian is aware of your attraction. He’s acutely observant, and I have no doubt he senses your best intentions. Perhaps you maybe surprised that he could be experiencing the same concerns as you.” I expressed compassionately.

Jake continued “I felt an overwhelming desire to fondle that magnificent outline his cock made in his pants while we talked before dinner. Of course this is not the time nor place. I believe first impressions are most important and foremost remembered” As we maintained eye contact. “I absolutely agree with you Jake.”

I expressed “Ian and I don’t participate within a social circle. Other than evenings like tonight when they are business orientated. You see Jake, Ian and I live with believing in Gratitude. Appreciating what we have, and what comes into our lives. We believe that like-minded people are brought together by unseen forces. Perhaps its the way we think outside the box, or the way we appreciate the box. This involves all aspects of our outlook regarding our relationship, sex, religion, yes and even politics. Both Ian and I need the companionship of a friend, and confidant.” Jake and I maintained eye contact as he nodded compassionately.

As Jake leaned back to reach his cell phone that was in his pant pocket. I took the opportunity to zoom in on the immensely defined bulge that outlined his crotch. Yahooo…this most definitely piqued my interest even more. “Kat would you like to exchange numbers?” “I’d like that and I have no doubt Ian feels the same way” As we were exchanging information, Ian and Chiaki were now walking back towards Jake and I. As they approach the love seat Jake leaned over and kissed me lightly on the lips.

(I didn’t see that coming, and loved it especially after that comment he made about how I drink.)

 He leaned forward picked up his drink stood up, and walked back to the love seat and sat next to Ian.

Chiaki sat down next to me on the love seat positioning herself in my direction. As she crossed her legs I could see she wasn’t wearing any panties. I caught a glimpse of her smooth-shaven snatch. (Thoughts ran wickedly as I imagined my face buried between her thighs.) “Did you enjoy dancing with Ian? Our eye’s met “yes I did, it gave us an opportunity to chat and get to know one another” she replied. Smiling I said “I’m elated the opportunity availed itself.” 

Chiaki announced “our hostess Lena is coming through the patio door right now.”  I said “its getting late I think it’s time for us to get going” Chiaki and Jake both nodded in agreement.

As Lena approached us she asked“may I refresh your drinks?” Ian replied “No thank you Lena, it’s getting late, its time for us to get going” Lena placed the empty glasses, and fruit platter on the tray, and walked into the house.

We all stood simultaneously and walked in pairs. Ian and I held hands. Jake and Chiaki walked side by side towards and through the glass door. Once inside we thanked our Host Michael and Hostess Lena for a lovely evening.

Ian and I decided to walk Chiaki and Jake to their cars. Jake walked closely to the right of me and said softly in my ear “I haven’t felt this wonderful after attending a dinner party. You have both made me feel comfortable just being me.” I put my right arm around Jake’s shoulder and turned my head in his direction, as he turned his head. Facing each other while walking I said “welcome to the family.”

First we walked Chiaki to her car. As we approached the car door she took her keys out of her clutch and disengaged the alarm. She turned and hugged Jake, and then took a step forward towards Ian and in unison they hug and then kissed lightly on the lips. She said to Ian“thank you for the lovely dance this evening. I had a Wonderful time.” 

We then gazed into each others eye’s. It was like she and I were the only ones standing out in the road.

In synch we walked towards each other. She positioned her body closely against mine. Wrapped both her arms around my shoulders, as I did to her petite figure. I could feel our tits rub against each other. That sent a jolt of lightning directly to my poonanie that endured much arousal this evening. I wanted nothing more than for us to get naked and rub and caress each others flesh. In that moment the thoughts that zipped through my mind of what I wanted to do to her body were probably illegal in most states.

She leaned upward her lips close to my ear as she spoke softly. I felt her warm breath against my ear “I will call you tomorrow, I want for us to spend the day together.” With our arms still around each other, I slightly leaned back to make eye contact. We gazed deeply. I smiled and said “I’m looking forward to seeing and spending time with you.” And then she….leaned in and kissed me so softly on the lips. This kiss made my Orchid Blush and I became considerably wet and extremely aroused. The feelings of infatuation and lust left me feeling intoxicated.

Chiaki turned around opened the driver door, and entered the car. As she started the engine she turned her head toward our direction smiled lovingly, and blew a kiss and drove off.

Ian, Jake and I walked across the street towards Jake’s car.  Jake turned to me and said “I’m looking forward to getting together, perhaps dinner?” “Yes we would like that.” “Great let me know how your schedules look.”  I said “Sounds good I’ll  call and let you know.” He turned to Ian and said “do you like to go fishing?” Ian turned in Jake’s direction and said excitedly “do I, it’s one of my many favorite hobbies.” “Fantastic! I will check out the tides, how does Saturday sound? We will take out the boat its docked at the Marina.” Ian’s face lit up with excitement.

As we approached Jake’s car, he pulled his keys out of his pocket. Disengaged the alarm. As the three of us stood in front of the driver door, Jake leaned forward and wrapped his arms around my shoulders hugging me snugly. Then leaned back and kissed me gently on the lips. “Kat it was a pleasure to have met you tonight, I’m looking forward to what the future shall bring,” I hugged him and said “Jake there are no coincides, it was meant to be I couldn’t be more delighted I’ll call you.”

Jake turned towards Ian as they simultaneously shook hands, and then gave each other a brisk hug. Jake said “I’ll be in touch to let you know about the fishing outing” Ian replied “That sounds great.” Jake opened the driver’s door entered the car, and turn the engine over. He looked in our direction and waved as he pulled away.

Ian and I walked towards our car. As we were talking about the events that took place tonight. We were in mutual agreement that there are no coincidence. This was what we both wanted for ourselves and each other. As we approached the car Ian gently and with intent pushed me against the passenger door and passionately kissed me. He said “Honey have I told you how much I love you today?” Mmmm I said “you know my memory”  We hugged each other tightly and entered the car and drove home.

Stayed Tuned for more adventures of these Daredevils of Deviance



The Free Rider Award


I’m Delighted to Announce, I have Received  “The Free Rider Award”

From Zed, The Free Rider and his Onager.

From the Very Talented Writing The Body:

I’m Deeply Touched and Flattered to Receive this Prestigious Award.

I hold this Gift Close To My Heart as today is my Birthday.

If you ever have the Pleasure to meet the Free Rider, and his Onager. 

Please be Kind, and Extend an open Loving Heart. It will come back to you 10 fold.

The provisions of the Free Rider award:

1.  You may give this award to someone, to no one, or indeed to many people.  As the award is of no importance, this is a matter of choice, as it would be even if it were a matter of importance.

2.  If the award is to be given to anyone else, Zed enjoins you to say what it is that you like about that person or that person’s blog, for one thing the free rider does is to pay close attention to those at hand….

3.  if there is anything further to be said about the award, it is important, to some extent, or perhaps not to any extent, that you randomly italicize words, for Zed is renowned as purveyor of randomly italicised words, and most especially of the word italic.

4.  As such an award may or may not be real, it is important, or perhaps not, at least to believe at least briefly in such things as blogsfree riders, or even Zed, or the one here whowrites the body.